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karine___
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I agree Sweetheart. Love is pure ,and taking dirty pics , upload them then send to your partner to provoke him sounds like a perverted idea to me....there should be purity in a married couple's bed and i can't see purity in that. It's also my opinion though.
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kayem77
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I really think that all depends of the circunstances of the way your mom took those pictures...who knows maybe she was trying to do something new for your stepdad and obviously she didnt realized you could see the picturess..i dont see the bad side of that at all cause it was supposed to be just for him to see them , and that's still pure just not the traditional wayy lol...
as for the porn well, thats another thing for me...
as for the porn well, thats another thing for me...
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karine___
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i think it's not like we are Adam and Eve before sin entered the world , even if you're a Christian your sinful nature is still there present , no wonder we walk around clothed . my opinion , again , though.
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BellaFlor
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If she watches porn I wouldn't be suprised that her pictures has a lot of inspiration from what she has been watching. Thus, it is a filthy sin.
sending pictures to your husband is not a sin, regardless if they are sexual, its no different than her being naked in her husbands presence.
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tryingtofindhim
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Your mom is a grown woman and makes her own decisions. You would be out of place to call her out on that. And involving anyone else in it will probably only cause more problems.
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Sweetheart1987
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wrong...it is a sin,it's a form of porn. Straight up.Now sending ''pictures'' isn't a sin,BUT sending naked ones,oh yes that's wrong. It's not wrong of her to call her out on it,as Christians we are to show others the way God wants us to live. I'm absolutely shocked by and disappointed in the ''Christian'' attitude/outlook on here. Tell others oh it's okay,not it's not! If it were,then every other sin would be okay as well. It doesn't matter if they're married. She's causing lust in his heart,which is wrong. She has no business sending naked pics to anyone. She could be sending them to anyone,possibly even posting them online. It's the same thing basically,sending them in a text and posting them online. Anyone can get them. The worst part of it,is that she repeats this disgusting act over and over. *sigh* I tell you what,do you think Jesus would want someone doing this sort of thing? No. It's not the same as being together in person. Lord help this woman....and help others to see the error in what she's doing,and them saying it's okay to do such a thing. There's also the possibility as one person said,it could be a troll on here. The age,they haven't commented once since posting the thread,things like that. Who knows,either way,I disagree as do many others that it's okay to do this sort of thing.
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karine___
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i too got very shocked when i saw comments saying it's alright as long as it's between the couple. it sounds like once you're married your "liberated" as far as sex's concerned , i know there are many people who say since the bible doesn't mention what can or what can't be done and so it's "alright" as long as the heart's pure , but there are so many unnatural things people do today (i better not mention) that are simply immoral and all in the name of pleasure . the devil is the perverter of all things and he perverts sex too.
Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
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kayem77
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Well i think you cant categorize the sins just like that...porn is a sin when you are watching it to pleasure yourself, and that corrupts your soul I AGREE.
But this isn't porn, they are personal pictures of herself FORR HER HUSBAND,i see it like another way to make intimacy with him, is not the traditional way i repeat, but is the same purposee, you cant tell any couple how to have intimacy cause thats personal and every couple do it differently so i dont think there have to be certain rules about it while it is between them and it's pure, sorry but i don't really think thats impuree.
But this isn't porn, they are personal pictures of herself FORR HER HUSBAND,i see it like another way to make intimacy with him, is not the traditional way i repeat, but is the same purposee, you cant tell any couple how to have intimacy cause thats personal and every couple do it differently so i dont think there have to be certain rules about it while it is between them and it's pure, sorry but i don't really think thats impuree.
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Sweetheart1987
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No it's not wrong to be turned on by his wife,however it's not his wife,it's pictures of her. It IS porn goodness that's crystal clear. To ''pleasure himself'' isn't right considering he's married. They should both wait until he comes back home. Some people will do anything to justify sins they think and feel aren't wrong...usually because either they themselves or someone they know has done those things. Even if that's not the case,how can a Christian justify such a disgusting thing???????? really come on! if they were just normal pics it would be different,but when they are naked pics,it's wrong,wrong,wrong! I do believe it's a sin. It's also ILLEGAL even if they're both over 18,so just let them keep on,and oops the wrong one finds out and they both go to jail. The daughter ends up in foster care or something, because by human/carnal/fleshly desires, according to some ''it's okay''. You know what...I'm done here,because clearly those of you defending this sick act are set in your ways,and will believe what you want no matter what. So God bless each of you.
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kayem77
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wow...im feeling a little of tension right noww lol, look it's my opinion, and this is a forum so u dont need to be rude and start judging if someone gives its opinion and it turns out to be different than yours,and im not trying to justify nothing since i dont see nothing to justify , but as i said, ITS MY OPINION, i might be wrong, i might not, but that's how i feel about it.
God bless
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tryingtofindhim
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I'm curious what's illegal about what she's doing? I can see from you point it being wrong morally, but I'm not seeing anything illegal.
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Sweetheart1987
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No there's not any tension. However,there is an annoyance at the serious lack of maturity spiritually,and the common sense and knowledge to see how wrong this junk is. I wasn't rude to you dear,so you don't need to think that. Nor did I judge,I gave an opinion as well,and facts. God would not want us to do such a truly disgusting,disturbing,wrong,self-indulgent, carnal,and fleshly,things. How do we know that? well it's common sense. A man shouldn't look at a woman in a lustful manner through pictures,videos,etc. because that's porn.married or not. What is porn when you define it? lets see here,porn:any picture, or video that shows someone in the nude/a sexual way, or anything that would cause temptation,lust,thoughts,or more.. Weather they're ''doing'' anything in those pics or just naked,it's porn. Therefore,it's wrong,and a sin.
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Sweetheart1987
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maybe you should check out the news,it's illegal to send naked pics of yourself or anyone else to anyone. No matter the age,reason,relation,etc.
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tryingtofindhim
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last time I checked its okay if you have permission from the recipient and if you're over 18. But it may be different laws in different states.
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tryingtofindhim
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Well, don't forget not everyone is on the same maturity level spiritually; we must be patient and loving no matter what level they are at.
I simply do not agree with you. Yes it's a picture of her, his WIFE.
How can a Christian justify this? Married couples are allowed to turn each other on and see each other naked.
If wanting your partner sexually is not allowed I really wonder how sex and babies happen.
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DanuckInUSA
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You have it bang on. The issue in the OP is not the sending of images of herself to him. The issue lies in looking at pornography.