Ladies, What Kind of Hairstyles Do You Like on Guys?

[Desdichado]

Like Mayor Goldie Wilson?

Ima someone? sweet! Next thing you know Im gonna be a somebody!

 

[Susanna]

Honestly, don’t you dare change for nobody just cause they have an opinion on you.

For those of us who actually know you on a deeper level, we know your pure intentions and the last thing I want to see is you feeling this way all because someone feels differently.

Love you sis.

Couldn’t have said it better myself.

Wise words, Mel85.

@seoulsearch, just be you and don’t pay attention to people digging for dirt.

 

[Susanna]

Ima someone? sweet! Next thing you know Im gonna be a somebody!

You gonna be somebody.

 

[Susanna]

Like Mayor Goldie Wilson?

It all came back to me when you mentioned that name. It’s 1985 or 1986 and life’s good.

 

[17Bees]

Honestly, don’t you dare change for nobody just cause they have an opinion on you.

For those of us who actually know you on a deeper level, we know your pure intentions and the last thing I want to see is you feeling this way all because someone feels differently.

Love you sis.

When I first read this I thought it said they have an "option on you" I thought wow, you can get options??! Then I re read it and it's not options at all ha ha. It's onions. Which is still kinda weird. But whatever. Cultural thing I guess.

 

[Mel85]

When I first read this I thought it said they have an "option on you" I thought wow, you can get options??! Then I re read it and it's not options at all ha ha. It's onions. Which is still kinda weird. But whatever. Cultural thing I guess.

Lucky I said onions then huh.

 

[BrotherMike]

Honestly, don’t you dare change for nobody just cause they have an opinion on you.

For those of us who actually know you on a deeper level, we know your pure intentions and the last thing I want to see is you feeling this way all because someone feels differently.

Love you sis.

Well said... you be you! I also see pure intentions and just because someone thinks differently doesn’t mean you have to change... they might have to change their interpretation... or just say talk to the . Ha kidding There are times for constructive criticism and this is not one of those times.

 

[Tinkerbell725]

Woke up like this/crumpled hairsyle

 

[Princesse]

I prefer a style and hue that suits his face and lifestyle. I’m not a fan of facial hair and will choose a clean shaven man every time. As long as he attends to his appearance and takes care of himself we’re good.

 

[Belka]

This was a really interesting thread to read.

And @seoulsearch - you are a beautiful, intelligent, godly, and amazing woman. Whatever the condition of your hair, I have no doubt that the right man for you will love you and cherish you just as you are. So please don't worry about your hair. Really.


As for me, I have an interesting experience with this topic.

Before I got saved, I was very into long hair on men. Like that would always draw my attention in a big way and I would frequently have crushes on guys with long, straight hair (especially musicians, lol).

But then when I got saved, that changed, and I stopped being attracted to long hair on men. It even started to seem a little inappropriate. Which to me, confirms the Bible verse that Ben shared about how it's a shame unto a man to have long hair, and a glory for a woman to have hers long.

So currently my personal preference is for them to have hair, but the length or style doesn't really matter as long as it looks good on them. If it's long but they really love it and it looks good on them, I think I would be fine with it (but I am not certain).
As a general rule though, I'm not a big fan of "modern" styles with shaved sides, etc. and I also don't really like dreads.

I have a strong preference when it comes to color though -- dark brown. Ginger hair on men on the other hand, feels literally incestuous lol (I'm a ginger myself).

As for facial hair, it's a definite plus. I find mustaches very attractive. A short, trimmed beard can be nice, too.

tfw my future husband has none of the above lol

 

[oksana123]

Short. If the hair is balding shave it off completely!

 

[MegMarch]

My preference is clean cut hair with a groomed beard.

 

[lomarespio]

Short to medium well-groomed wins every time. Wavy hair gets a lot of love but any texture works as long as it suits the face. When it comes to straight long hairstyles, they are universally seen as attractive and feminine but maintenance is key to keeping them looking full and healthy. Salt and pepper is universally attractive on men, very distinguished. If it starts thinning just shave it off clean. Confidence beats a comb over every single time. Bottom line, confidence and good grooming matter far more than the actual hair itself!

 

[CcGirl]

This seems kind of like a fun thread.

Ok, well.... my era is the 2000s. So a heart-throb hairstyle for me were all those boys with curtain bangs!
I also like short shaggy hairstyles on guys.

However, just because I like a hairstyle, that doesn't mean I would be interested in guys who might be considered eye-candy. I don't need a celebrity, model, a guy with a chiseled jaw, or a guy who is as pretty as a girl (unless that's who God would want to pair me with).
My ideal type would be a guy with good looking hair, a clean shave, but an average simple person who has a very patient temperament and enjoys the companionship of pets.



Images of men/boys with curtain bangs, which were popular in the 2000s or considered Y2K styles.



Short Shaggy hair, sometimes seen on surfer beach-boys or shaggy teenagers.

 

[Lanolin]

Curly hair. It needs to be thick and curly. Don't know why, it just does.

If your hair is straight, and needs curlers or a curling wand, forget it.