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He's not for real..........
He is not who/where/what he claims to be; it's all an act.
And he's now banned.
He is not who/where/what he claims to be; it's all an act.
And he's now banned.
I've said it once and I'll say it again. You (especially young women) have to be really, really careful out there. I bet Christians are special targets because people can say things like "God told me to marry you" and they think we'll fall for that. Or "God's told me that you'll be a blessing in my life." I mean, that's happened to me a lot on dating sites and it's even happened to me on this site.
You know, I think we shouldn't be reluctant to ask questions to get to the bottom on someone's motives. If one is really a Christian than they won't mind answering them. I find that when Christians make a big decision that they've really thought through and prayed about they WANT to answer questions. It's like "Let me tell you all the wise reasons why I believe why God wants me to do this." If they respond defensively (as the member on this site who contacted me did) then that should be a BIG red flag. You know, we're taught to test everything and keep the good. If someone is really doing something from God, they're not going to mind having it put to the test. It may seem judgemental, but isn't it more important to protect your sisters in Christ???
Thank you for having the guts to ban this member!