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I recently married in December. A few days ago I read messages my husband sent to girls he use to date before we got together. He reached out to five to six girls within 3 months to just a few days of me reading the messages. He told one girl she was sexy, when the girl asked him, "How's married life?" He said, it's a stable place to live, meals and a car. He told another girl that he loves me but he think he made a mistake marrying me because he was afraid of being alone. He told another girl that she is beautiful, smart and a whole laundry list of compliments. Then he told her he made a mistake marrying me and that he was immature not to wait for her and that she is the one for him. I cried while reading the messages. I feel humiliated, betrayed and heart broken. I told him I read the messages. He said, he only said those things because he was upset with me and at times he does regret our marriage when we have arguments. He apologized and I had him delete and block the girls from his FB and message them that what he said was a mistake. But I can't help but feel he meant everything that he said. I can't help but feel he is using me and doesn't really love me. I have to beg and argue with him to spend time with me, to even take a picture. It's been like this for the last three months. We prayed on it but I still feel like I can't trust him and our marriage is a sham.
I'm just looking for advice from married couples who may have been in a similar situation.
Side info. We're both young, 25 years old, with no children. We dated for 5 years before getting married and broke up for a year before getting married.
I'm just looking for advice from married couples who may have been in a similar situation.
Side info. We're both young, 25 years old, with no children. We dated for 5 years before getting married and broke up for a year before getting married.