Lets look at an analogy right....In the Godhead, The Spirit does only what Jesus and said, and Jesus does only what the Father said; yet non is greater than the other. Some my look at this as the Father being the head and Jesus being greater than the Spirit..But they are one God; one Authority...
It is my OPINION (just looking for your thoughts on the matter) that women and men were created differently; for eg by very design women tend to be more influential and nurturing while men tend to be more decisive ...It doesn't take away the authority but causes they unit to work together more seamlessly
this has no bearing on the individual authority or spirituality, and its not about who cooks and who washes; it about something deeper an innate instinct
LOL... I know all my POWER Girls could drown me for this; but I am praying you understand where I'm coming from, if I'm not explaining properly