This kind of imperious commanding attitude is partially what I'm describing when I talk about what the Western feminist movement has done to female culture beginning since the 60's, but it's hardly the entirety of it.
I realize it might be news to you, but this thesis is hardly new and I feel genuinely sorry for the vast majority of Western men who think those are the only choices available. They become another statistic in the insanely high divorce rate and spend a lot of their lives in misery, leading thankless lives devoid of kindness and love. It is and has been an epidemic in the Western world for the past 40 years. I have too much compassion for them to waste time hating its' cause. Avoidance is much easier, when at all possible.
I really have no idea who you are, but the wild accusations, condescension, and imperious attitude have given me zero reason to believe you deviate much from the standard norm. So it's not altogether unsurprising that you would perhaps find my words uncomfortable and lash out in such a way.