Autism that heavily impairs a person is not a made-up illness. It is a real disorder that currently cannot be cured, but there are treatments and strategies that can help reduce its impact and make life easier.
"When you've met one person with autism, you've met one"
My brother's friend in high school could only squeak, but he knew every single dinosaur that ever lived. That's what happens, they will often find some subjects they like and run with it until it's almost an obsession. My brother has 4. maps radio royalty and rock history. I bet you drop him by two intersections anywhere in the world and he would know where he was. Same with radio frequencies and rock history. Communication is the hardest; the conversation either loops in circles, where you tell him the answers he wants, or he's informing you of what he knows.
Sensory Sensitivities: My brother used to push. Then we all decided in his second year of middle school, we weren't going to have that. Someone could be hurt one day, so from then on, every chance we got, we were patting his head, leading him around. I remember he could only take us tugging on his sleeve at first, now he doesn't mind people holding his hand or brushing by him, he even offers handshakes to people he's just met. So he's now mostly normal in that sense.
Caffeine: should have its own section, as it practically ruined my childhood due to Sleep deprivation. Maybe it's because of brain chemistry, but caffeine is a definite no-no in our house. I cant stress enough on how it should never be allowed for children with autism. Even a bite of chocolate or a sip of Coke a cola, and he's going to be up all night with agitation.
People that has autism and have been institutionalized often had parents who just didn't care. Or didn't know better, or that they had a dangerous fixation, like light bulbs or antennas. Once when my brother was younger, i remember he climbed up a tree because he wanted a larger antenna. All the bushes in the yard were cut down because they interfered with the reception. My mom solved the fixation by buying the largest attena that was a used one from a ham radio operator (ham head) in the area. Maybe it's also the lengths to which people are willing to travel to keep their child. Another time he got a fixation on flushing everything down the toilet. Then one day he flushed a wooded egg. The toilet had to be removed from the salon. And he watched as my mom and I changed the toilet, and of course, the bathroom flooded always fun. And no one ate out that day, because the shop was closed. He didn't do it again.
It was a lot of learning lessons the hard way. But he's a lot more normal today. My mom friend did the opposite 20 years ago. When he finally got out of the institution, he was ruined nothing she could do would make him even a bit normal. They had a free ticket for any mother who wanted to drop their child in the institution with autism, for they wouldn't prescribe medication, they said, unless they were in a facility. My mom went around to every doctor until she found one who would prescribe medicine. She may have been even the first mother who asked for prozac because the doctor at the time said that they didn't typically prescribe that medication for autism. Those medications keep families together
@Mem, you wouldn't believe how hard it was for my mother raising my brother. He was a runner; he ran away from every sound. It's a miracle he even survived childhood. Without a Safety Harness for Autism and Special Needs and medication, he wouldn't be here today. Imagine you had a child with autism, and it was like this, peter no, Peter!, PETER !!!. as you watch your children run straight towards a car or off something because he was trying to get away from people.