Narcissistic neighbour

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Besor600

Besor600

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Being emotionally and verbally abused from a neighbour and her friends, like I'm a target. Maybe my faith is being tested. But the abuse is constant daily, in and around town, as well as at home, and would really appreciate your prayers for strength and his guidance and providence in this situation. Many blessings to you in the name of Jesus.
 
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Sweetmorningdew78

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Father God please forgive his neighbor and his neighbor's friends for using words to hurt Besor please cleanse and heal the hurts that Besor's neighbor and friends words have caused to him. Lord sorround Besor with your care and protection give him the strength and the love he needs everyday. Guide him in everything he does that he may walk in love and YOUR name will be glorified in his life. Thank you Lord in Jesus gracious name Amen!



God bless you bro. ❤
 
Violet24

Violet24

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Lord Jesus, I lift up Besor to you in prayer......For whatever the reason for him being harassed daily, Lord I pray that You would put a hedge of protection around Besor. Lord, I pray that You would give Besor wisdom on how to handle this situation. As Christians we are called to walk in love & be peacemakers in all we do. As Your word Lord says in proverbs15:1 A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Lord, I pray as Besor seeks You for guidance, that Your "Will" would be done in this situation. May his neighbors see their own ignorance & immaturity in their actions. Bring a renewed unity between Besor & his neighbors. I Pray for Peace to come within this situation. In Jesus name!!
Ephesians 6:
The Armor of God
10Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. 11Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. 12For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. 13Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. 14Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, 15and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. 16In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. 17Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.
 
levi85

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Lord bless Besor600 , and you be glorified. let the neighbours be friendly to Besor600, and syop abusing. Lord have mercy upon Besor600. In Jesus Holy name, Amen!
 
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littlestarsmum

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I’m so sorry to hear that, friend. I know how frustrating it must be for you. Please know that I’ll be praying for you, asking the Lord to intervene in your situation and deliver you from all your troubles. We serve a compassionate, loving God who knows and cares about every detail of our lives. May you rest in the assurance the psalmist expressed when he wrote: “In the day of my trouble I shall call upon You, for You will answer me” (Psalm 86:7). Blessings!
 
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theanointedsinner

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Lord, I tend to be prone for selfishness

how to go from not having a heart to having a heart?

how to go from not having empathy to having empathy?

Jesus is the answer to all these questions
Lord, you can redeem anyone

and even if we do have a heart, we do fall at times, tempted to be apathetic, and Jesus is there to help us get back on our feet.

You are there, and you will be there. Be there for this person who have extra-grace-required neighbors. Help redeem those neighbors. Whether by step by step instruction, or miraculously, it's all in your will and timing, amen
 
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thespiritoftruth

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Lord we pray for Besor600 and his neighbour. Give hin peace in this situation. Let his neighbour know he is troubling and let him be also at peace. In thy precious name.Amen
 
MrH59

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I can understand you frustration, the old saying " sticks and stones" has never really helped. The only thing that comes to mind is " kill them with kindness" . Romans 12;20 Your kindness will heap burning coals on their head. I know its easier said than done so I will say a prayer for you. ( maybe even a couple)
 
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cupolatte

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I like Mr H59's comment "kill them with kindness!" Also pray for them. Obviously, they don't understand God's love and compassion if they are acting like this. They need Him. That would change everything and praying for them will help you cope with this and give you greater understanding of the situation. Of course I will pray for you. I will do it right now.
 
tourist

tourist

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Besor600 said:
Being emotionally and verbally abused from a neighbour and her friends, like I'm a target. Maybe my faith is being tested. But the abuse is constant daily, in and around town, as well as at home, and would really appreciate your prayers for strength and his guidance and providence in this situation. Many blessings to you in the name of Jesus.
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I used to have neighbors from hell. Eventually I moved and peace was restored. I will say a prayer for your bad situation with the neighbor's. There is nothing worse than living in a home that you're paying for and can't have any peace and quiet due to rude, obnoxious neighbor's.
 
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renewed_hope

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theanointedsinner said:
may we worship God instead of the police
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Wow! No where did she say worship the police!!! Excuse me, but that is the dumbest thing I've heard someone say all day. Just because we call for help because a situation gets out of hand does not mean we are not trusting God to handle it. Please don't twist what someone says to mean something else and actually read things for what they say.
 
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keep_on_smiling

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Praying the Lord completely take over this situation with your neighbors and bring healing and forgiveness as needed. I pray for protection and guidance in how to appropriately deal with this situation.

One of the hardest things to do is pray for those that attack us, but it is extremely helpful and necessary. I pray the Lord bring you an abundance of strength and peace. You are not alone. God bless!
 
Demi777

Demi777

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theanointedsinner said:
may we worship God instead of the police
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I may turn the cheak without being your doormat.
U forget u aint in heaven yet so let me remind you thatthere are people in uniform (soldiers, police,fire fighters) who get put in thatthe place BY GOD so thatmuch they can enforce thethe law on earth thatvthere are.
Deal with it sugar
 
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theanointedsinner

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Demi777 said:
I may turn the cheak without being your doormat.
U forget u aint in heaven yet so let me remind you thatthere are people in uniform (soldiers, police,fire fighters) who get put in thatthe place BY GOD so thatmuch they can enforce thethe law on earth thatvthere are.
Deal with it sugar
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Ephesians 5:17 - do not be foolish but understand what the Lord's will is
which is my favorite verse on my profile

Amen Demi777
 
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