What has helped me battle grief has been pouring into God, family, and strangers.
I cry to God, I laugh with friends, I love on strangers.
Additionally, ask older believers to pray with you and ask them how they got through some of the hardest times.
Keep reading the Word and ask God for wisdom.
Trust that tomorrow is gone but that today is here and God can teach you, help you, love you-- where you are, as you are, and to wherever it is-- whomever it may be, whenever He so desires.
The Lord is not limited in understanding.
He knows the waking and sleeping and moments in between.
And Jesus died for you, even though God foreknew you and the bad choices you'd make.
Don't forget, He also knew you you'd write to this forum, for the purpose of seeking His Peace.
Therefore, praise God!
you ain't done yet.
Prayer:
Lord, I pray for your Word to penetrate the mind and the attacks that she feels, and even when she thinks she is fine.
I pray that you build her up with Joy of the Lord and Faith and Faithfulness in the Blood of Christ.
I pray that she remembers, "No weapon" shall prosper-- if You are for her.
And yet even when the memories, the trials, the judgments, the heartaches face her--
help her to remember that You are Good and Do not make mistakes.
God, you know the needs.
Meet her and fill them,
in your time for your will,
in Jesus name, amen.