Please pray for me

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Jenny712

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I've been in prayer for a Christian husband as I would like to get married someday. I thought it would be wise to ask other brothers and sisters in Christ to pray for the same thing. Just please ask the Lord to prepare my heart and mind to be a wife someday and that he also prepare my future husband whomever he may be to be a husband to me when the time is right. I am willing to wait Christian husband's are worth waiting for. Also pray that when the time comes and I finally meet the Christian man who will be someday my husband that at first we will become friends and get to know each other slowly. I don't want to rush into anything. I know of Christians who will get married the day they meet their spouse and GOD bless them and their marriages have lasted many years. That's just not for me I want to move very slowly and get to know him and before I start dating him one on one I want to be comfortable around him and feel safe around him and be able to already share the good, bad and anything in between with him. Then when we do date again just take things nice and slow no rushing anything. I want him actually to take the lead in the friendship and relationship because if he can't lead those he can't lead a family or be any sort of spiritual leader so I'll need to see him lead. I know I don't need to get married to be happy or have joy but I would like to be blessed in such a way someday. So please pray about all this for me please.
 
I have said prayer before for you about this and will say more prayer. When you finally do meet him please don't put a lot of pressure on him about leadership. There are a lot of ways to show leadership besides what you may think this means. Yes, I will pray that he takes things slow but sure with you. This will require some action on your part such as agreeing to go on a date if he were to ask you.

The important thing is that you must both be comfortable with each other. Eventually, for the relationship to continue there will also have to be trust because without this there is no basis for a relationship.

Don't be afraid - you can do this.

I am not sure what plans God has for you but please know that He knows what is in your heart and He wants you to have life and to have it more abundantly.

What you have wrote about in your post is definitely worth praying for. I know from experience in what has happened in my own life.

God Bless You.
 
:)Psalms 37:4 Delight yourself in the Lord,and he will give you the desires of your heart.
 
jenny, you sound like you are nice and you know what you want. in the immortal words of spock : it is sometimes better to want than to receive. ha. at 56 yoa i'm disappointed in humans. the divorce rate and adultery frequency in the U.S.A. are bad. after the ex divorcing us after 25 years because of my MS symptoms, i'm ready to try it alone. oh, and a girl friend who's profile on "christian mingle" was... as she put it ...putting her best foot forward, tee hee. anyway, i pray you don't get hurt but the options out there are concerning. (don't be in a rush). Lord, i pray for jenny. prepare an exception for her. i know their out there. i pray for my attitude, you know. thank you.
 
I think you just described what a lot of women want. Remember though no man is perfect, even those who are Christian. Praying if that's god's will for your life then let it be so.
 
Yes Lord God we pray for Jenny712, please bless her in this matter , let her find her husband according to your will. In Jesus name Amen!