So I was on reddit again today and came accross this pposter and I really need prayers for them because they struggle with a lot but want to be saved here is the post they made and see what I mean
ima tell you my backstory and my background
hello I am Ty.. just call me Ty
I have multiple disorders slightly sociopathic slightly bpd slightly autistic; heavy Reactive attachment disorder or dsed where i have a very strong attachment to certain people
I just need advice with anger management… Christianity and seeking God
my biological father who isn’t in my life is a heavy christian
I am a domestic abuser.. verbal abuser and I get very angry
MOD PLEASE DONT TAKE THIS DOWN I AM SEEKING HELP
i really wanna turn to Christ right now I just prayed and tried to repent my sins but because of the slightest bit of sociopathic tendencies i tend to get homicidal a big no no in Christ.. I have two bodies(meaning sex) and I recently got a good gf… I am struggling to cope with my anger and depression.. I was a weed smoker my biological mother did herion and cheated on my father 4 times.. I just wish people actually cared as much as I do
anyone got any tips?? AM i too evil to seek God?? Does suicidal thoughts mean I am not worthy for my Lord and savior Jesus Christ??
Hi Blain,
Thank you for your compassionate heart. I've read a few of your posts asking for prayer for various people. You are obviously trying to reach out to people no one else in society would want to talk to -- may God bless you for that.
I will pray for this person, but I also must say that I am praying for YOU. PLEASE be careful out there. Please do not give any personal information about yourself to any of these people, and please never ever give them anything besides prayer. Limit your interactions and cut yourself off from them because even attention can be addicting for many. I am worried about these kinds of people taking advantage of your kind heart.
I am NO expert by any means, just a fellow Christian who spent some time trying to witness to prison inmates for about 8 years. This person sounds very much like someone I used to write.
Ty obviously has very serious issues. As if there aren't already enough red flags, the ones that stuck out to me most are:
1. He admits to having sociopathic tendencies. This means that he likely has little regard for right or wrong, and does not consider other people's feelings -- though he can ACT like it, and at the time, it will sound sincere, and will easily fool your heart.
2. He has attachment issues, admits to being an abuser, and even says he has HOMICIDAL tendencies. This is NOTHING to take lightly.
PLEASE, just offer your prayers for this person, and I would strongly advise you to move on. If he becomes attached to you in any way, he will likely see you as owing him something or will want to "punish" you if you don't do what he wants.
The person Ty's story reminds me of underwent terrible abuse from a toddler that would make anyone cry. He had a reason to be angry, he had a reason to be violent and hateful -- and it warped him past a point of no return, though he'd been raised with Christian influence and insisted he was a Christian.
He started out torturing and killing animals as a child. By 19, he'd committed two murders and was sentenced to life without parole. When I started writing him when he was about 33, he had a long history of trying to kill others in prison, including nearly decapitating someone and choking another to a point of permanent brain damage. Sometimes he was protecting himself from assault. But he wrote openly that the violence excited him like nothing else, and was a craving he would give into.
Now I'm not saying that "Ty" is exactly like this. But all the warning signs are there. And one important thing I learned from the inmates is that people like this prey on other people's sympathy, most especially Christians, because it's in our nature and belief system to help. Christians are seen as the most desirable of all victims, because it's too easy for us to fall for the side of them that expresses self-pity.
Talking to and trying to help someone like this is a lot like talking to Darth Vader in Star Wars -- they sound like they "still have some good left in them," but only God knows how much or if they can be turned around. And even if they do maintain their Christianity, it doesn't mean they'll be able to control their urges to lash out, harm, and even kill. Some might very well need to be kept away from society to keep from harming others.
Someone like this needs professional treatment, and a lot of it.
I understand what you are trying to do -- I relate very well to what you're feeling about this person -- but I am concerned about YOU.
I felt a deep sense of purpose when I used to talk to inmates/very troubled people, but when a young woman who was doing the same thing was shot and killed by one of the men she wrote (he had escaped from prison,) God cut me off from this.
I am praying that God leads you every step of the way with wisdom, discernment, and a willingness to detach yourself when needed -- and to RUN, please be wiling to RUN, and never look back, if necessary.
I care about you and don't want to see you get hurt!
God bless you for caring about these people. 💗
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