Politely saying 'no'

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your best defense is God, Jesus & the Holy Spirit & the angels he has assigned to you. but that doesn't mean you shouldn't have any physical defense weapons. if able, learn how to use a gun. bats & pipes are easy to get. also, secondarily, if you know the "right people", that can assist. blessings to you.
I've heard stilletos can hurt.
Us women were taught safety skills when alone with a man who might suddenly turn on you.
Locking the car doors, mace, having keys at ready to poke, umbrella (everyone saw what Britney Spears did to the pesky pap's car) having a dog... mobile phone to call a friend...never say directly where you're going to a stranger. Wearing jeans or leggings that are hard to remove.
As for Christians those Bibles are pretty heavy. And we can resist the devil with our words.
 
I've heard stilletos can hurt.
Us women were taught safety skills when alone with a man who might suddenly turn on you.
Locking the car doors, mace, having keys at ready to poke, umbrella (everyone saw what Britney Spears did to the pesky pap's car) having a dog... mobile phone to call a friend...never say directly where you're going to a stranger. Wearing jeans or leggings that are hard to remove.
As for Christians those Bibles are pretty heavy. And we can resist the devil with our words.
i assent. when accosted, never, never take on a deliberate desire to injure for your own satisfaction. just today, i gave a woman advice on defense.
 
i assent. when accosted, never, never take on a deliberate desire to injure for your own satisfaction. just today, i gave a woman advice on defense.
Well that would be attacking, not defending.
 
Well that would be attacking, not defending.
if someone is defending herself or himself in a physical way & especially in the eyes of God, the defense topples over the attack. in essence, you are not guilty of anything. look how many times God told His people to defend themselves in the o.t.
 
huh our national anthem is 'God Defend New Zealand' but since we are a bunch of Islands we already have like a moat around us. So we don't really defend ourselves, we just ask God to do it for us.
 
huh our national anthem is 'God Defend New Zealand' but since we are a bunch of Islands we already have like a moat around us. So we don't really defend ourselves, we just ask God to do it for us.
sure. i don't see a reason why an army would want to spend time down there fighting.
 
sure. i don't see a reason why an army would want to spend time down there fighting.
Unless it's a rugby match where they kick a ball around and tackle each other and suffer concussion....
 
Cricket is probably a better sport, but Australia has more flat land to do that, and it's sunnier there.
Both men and women play these days.