Personally experienced or agree with literally everything in your lovely comment. Did have a strange, quite troubling childhood but i wouldn't wish it away for anything, because it taught me so much.
One of the most true adages to me is walk a mile in my shoes. Sure we can judge/condemn an action but not people, point the finger and it's guaranteed many have the right to point at you. Which doesn't mean we should tolerate wicked behaviour, if you aren't the type to get angry easily, it's usually possible to find a solution, even if it's just walk away. I think holding grudges is really harmful and that the world is now a very angry, frightened place. I'm a pretty new Christian and so appreciate that the problems which made me fear for my children's future, are in the hands of the LORD, only he can and will sort the nightmare out.
Grrr! Waiting for the humidity to drop before running my bath