pray for me..struggling with porn

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Nate0220

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Sep 8, 2011
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hey everyone..I just wanted to ask you guys to pray for me. i have been wrestleing with porn for a better part of a year now...as much as I try to stop, I can't..it's really affection my relationship with my fiancee and I've told her about and she says don't worry about it. What do i do?

I want out of my own prison...:(
 
Praying for you in Jesus Christ is Lord for all that is His care and streangth.

God bless.
pickles
 
Hi Pickless.u need to ask the lord to manifest his strength in ur weakness.u nid a lil effort n a role to play.i want u to put away anyting dat has 2 do with porn.destroy evertin porn around u do nt tink abt porn.n if u bored and lonely pick up ur bible n read sum lines .and then the good lord wil see u through.luv u bro
 
Bro, first of all read Romans 6,
I advise you to spend a lot of time reading the word and just worshiping and praising God, ask Him to change your mind set.
And whenever you are tempted to sin, confess the word of God and proclaim that you are free and you will not fall for it. Christ has already set you free, so claim your freedom by often confessing with you mouth and mind that you have been freed! God bless you bro!
 
The best way to break out of prison is to... (Don't get any wise ideas!!)

There was a king of Israel I think it was of Israel, but he came and saw all the mess Israel had polluted themselves with (their high places) and he had found the law of God, and he made all of the people subject to it again as they had gone away from it. So he got together some people, and destroyed all the high places where the people went to sacrifice.

The Holy Spirit hit me hard with this. He was showing me exactly what I was doing. I too had high places that I needed to destroy. If you follow Israel, you will see that some kings would do okay in some areas, but they would not remove the high places, and this lead Israel back into sin.

So you see, we can't hold onto ANYTHING that we know will tempt us.

Then eventually I read, ''MAKE NOT PROVISION FOR THE FLESH, TO FULFILL THE LUST THEREOF.'' Yup. Now hear what the Lord has said.

Don't set the stage up for your sin, just to tempt yourself. The hardest thing to do is destroy the high places, because we are so familiar with them. But my friend, this is a spiritual thing also. I hope the Lord opens this revelation to you.

May Jesus bless you.
 
Nate,
I wish my husband could write to you himself- he struggled with a porn addiction long before I met him. He found a book entitled "Everyman's Battle" very helpful and I have often heard him reccommend it to others struggling with the same problem. You canbe freed from this bondage though faith in Christ. I will pray for you.
 
Dear Brother...my heart really goes out to you...and I know and have seen the power to destroy this stronghold has...someone dear to me in my own family struggles with this...Our Wonderful Merciful Father gave him a vision of a young toddler who was walking on a treacherous path..and kept falling down..again and again...crying...sobbing...and the babe's Father tenderly came up to him...lifted him up...hugged him...consoled him...then put him down and took his hand..and began walking with him along the treacherous path...hallelujah to the Lamb...The Lord was showing this male family member that he was as helpless as a toddler along this path out of darkness ..but the Father would walk through it with him...and pick him up if he fell..and lead him out..Amen..Amen Lord Jesus. While this family member is not completely free...he is fighting to be free...with the word, prayer..and as our Lord heals his heart from many other pains and as he puts to death the lusts of the flesh and desires to be a husband one day when the Lord brings him a wife that will not destroy his wife or himself with adultery that is committed in the heart and mind ...he is able to fight this strongman of pornorgraphy with more confidence and authority....he truly desires to be free of it like you do Brother...and amen..we are promised victory in our Lord! We are at war... We do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but principalities and powers and spiritual wickedness in high places...and Our Lord Jesus came to set the captives free...from the chains we can and cannot see..Amen.

May I gently voice a concern...it concerns me your fiance is not bothered by your struggle...for you or for herself.....I'll keep you both in prayer Brother...may God give you wisdom. Amen

Shalom to you :)
 
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Jesus surround him with strong and wise leadership. Lord speak to him with the heart of Your wisdom. Cover him with Your light, grace and love.
In Jesus Name Amen
 
A prayer is not a wish. You must work with the Lord, both in prayer and physical labor(if able), not just pray and expect something that you didn't earn to happen