I have noticed many woman today have so much burden placed upon them. From the world, from the people who call themselves the Church, from with similar attitudes I have had in the past. Sex is something that is physical, emotional, and spiritual. Most see the physical, some see the emotional, but very few connect the spiritual. I think If you can find someone who shares similar heart and persuing God in the same manner. these struggles will not be so much struggle. Accountability, and relationships are more than just Sex