repentance from addiction

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hello. I'm struggling to let go of addiction, and I don't know if that means I'm unrepentant or what. either way its pretty tough and will accept any advice / scripture.
 

Dino246

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There are several threads which might weave together to form addictions. One is the physical response to the stimulus, commonly rooted in hormonal releases. Drugs, sugar, sex and gambling are addictive because they lead to release of endorphins, the "feel good" hormones. Sugar (and all carb-dense foods), alcohol, and drugs may trigger additional "pleasant" physical responses. The body responds to these "good-feeling" stimuli by creating cravings for more.

A second is the physical habits and patterns. Often addictions are strengthened simply by repeating habits that have no particular benefit, or, having been started for good reasons, become ends in themselves.

A third is relational associations. People drink and smoke in company, and associate the good things of relationships with the drink or drug. People eat sugary breakfast as children and look to recreate that simplicity and innocence by eating similar c**p as adults.

A fourth is the mental patterns, which interleave good self-talk with very negative self-talk. The latter is often common in the later stages of addiction and the earlier stages of recovery.

A fifth is, of course, demonic infestation. Our spiritual enemies are all too eager to capitalize on our physical weaknesses and add to them condemnation, hopelessness, self-disgust, and worse. Often the most negative thoughts that addicts experience aren't originating in their own minds.

A sixth (which my wise wife added) is that addictions are often a response to a physical or emotional trauma. Face, understand, and deal with the trauma, and you might undermine the addiction.

The good news is that Jesus knows all of this in far more technical and personal detail, and He desires to see His children set free. He will help you, so involve Him in every step of the process. His timeframe may not match yours though, so be patient with yourself.

You might do well to seek counselling from an experienced pastor, who may also recommend addiction-specific treatment. If you really want to be free of this, don't be too shy or too proud to ask for help in real life. :)
 

HeIsHere

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hello. I'm struggling to let go of addiction, and I don't know if that means I'm unrepentant or what. either way its pretty tough and will accept any advice / scripture.
I am not sure if you like to read, but there is an excellent book by Dr. Lustig "The Hacking of the American Mind."
He provides solid information.

He also has a presence on You Tube.

Addiction (in the clinical sense) is brain based/dopamine.

I think his information will help you understand the compulsive part of addiction and why it is so hard to change behaviors.

I think a good support group or counsellor, preferably someone who understands the neuroscience and yes pray too, because God knows the bondage that is occurring in the brain and He can set you free.
 

timemeddler

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I used a Tegu lizard to get me to quit drinking. It sounds silly, but I told myself if I quit I could have one, Well it worked.
 

listenyoumustAll

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hello. I'm struggling to let go of addiction, and I don't know if that means I'm unrepentant or what. either way its pretty tough and will accept any advice / scripture.
You being uneasy about it means you are repentant . GET IT . 2 Corinthians 5:17(KJV) Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.
2 Peter 1:4(KJV) Whereby are given unto us exceeding great and precious promises: that by these ye might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust. Now you have a new NATURE . God is walking with you .