Hello Andy. Life is so very full of challenges and road blocks, it is good that you recognize that you have reached one in this regard. "Church" exists to support others in their understanding of and seeking after God and His will in and for your life. Any decent congregation of people would not mind if you approached them with the truth of your situation, which is that you are looking for a church home, a place where you feel welcomed and accepted for who you are and loved, while also being taught the Word of God. Be honest about it and you will receive honesty and warmth in return. If you do not, keep searching. I have been so very blessed in this regard, having attended about four different churches since I was baptized thirteen years ago. I am settled into a church now that is full of lovely loving people with great leadership, that I have been a part of for at least the last ten years. I hope you are able to find something for yourself that will fill your needs as a person growing into the fullness of the grace of God. Blessings to you!