Honestly, at first I don't see the flaws because I fall into a "pink zone" where everything is beautiful, then I see the flaws but I see them as parts of him that make him human, that make him be who he is. Maybe some flaws will bother me sometimes, but they make love even deeper. I know I have flaws too, I expect him to have them. If he doesn't I will seriously suspect he is a robot. Like allforfun said, the scars tell a story about the person, if they can show you their scars and you can show him yours without fear ,that's something deep and beautiful.