Wow you are an awesome encouraging brother B1Davanda!! Thank you for your kind words!!
Lots of ((((((hugs))))))) sent your way!!
I read what the OP and pilgrim is saying about this thread being a "warning" and I am thinking something SO different than you are about how God relates to us His sons. It is majorly important for the believer to have faith in the finished work of Jesus on their behalf. God wants us to KNOW we have eternal life and to be secure IN HIS love for us. Not in our works for Him.
Herein is love, not that we love God but that He loves us. It's not about what we do it's what He does and did. I believe it is poison to the heart of a believer when someone attempts to thwart that message of truth. Our confidence needs to be solid in Christ. Not thrown into doubt. I refuse to take the message that is posted here about instilling fear on the believer. God has not given us the spirit of fear but of power and LOVE and a sound mind. (The Holy Spirit instills confidence in us about our standing).
He ministers to us about our righteous standing. That is His ministry too us as well. It is not sugary sweet like the fake imitation sweetness that blinds that you guys were saying here. It is like the Bible calls it, it is sweet like a honey comb. Reviving the soul. When people come along and thwart that message it causes me to post again and again.
All warnings are good and wholesome and right when we read them in the Bible. We are not to fear but to listen and walk in confidence not fear we may fail. That is counter productive to the Holy Spirit's working in us. We are admonished to walk in confidence and by faith IN Christ working in and through us. Not to rely on the arm of the flesh.
I read carefully the posts of the believers who disagree about the kind of relationship we are to have with our Father. It's a Love relationship a believer is supposed to have with God IN Christ. It should be one of confidence and a sure foundation. One that causes joy and peace. What kind of love relationship can we have with anyone if we are doubting them every day?
We have the kind of relationship that is sort of like a good marriage. We are not forced to kiss our spouse and spend time with them - It's not a hardship! we WANT to do that. If we don't, something is wrong. Isn't joy and peace something that you seek after with God? As posthuman said., the JOY of the Lord is our strength. And in all the Bible, truth it is never to cause anything but a confidence in Christ and a joy that will get us through in strength.
Any person, teacher or preacher or even another brother or sister who seeks to cast doubt about Jesus love and provision for us must not be listened to. And imo should be reminded of the truth of Christ again and again. The Gospel is ALWAYS good news every part of it FOR THE Christian is good news.
Instruction is always good not bad or negative as the OP is saying. All of the truths and promises in the Bible are YES AND AMEN for the believer. It is always under the shadow of His wings. We are never outside of that provision. If you don't know that you need to know it. It's true for all believers. We are told to KNOW the love of God. It is supposed to be our daily goal.
2 Cor.8:9
[SUP]9 [/SUP]For you are becoming progressively acquainted with
and recognizing more strongly
and clearly the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ (His kindness, His gracious generosity, His undeserved favor and spiritual blessing), [in] that though He was [so very] rich, yet for your sakes He became [so very] poor, in order that by His poverty you might become enriched (abundantly supplied).
To know the love of God that passes all understanding and upholds us in times of trouble regardless of our feelings our situation.
I know you guys think God's love and care for us is conditional but it can't be otherwise Jesus didn't have to come and set us right. We could have done that ourselves by our behavior and our works. Our relationship to God is not on anything so flimsy as our own power.
When you read passages like the ones you posted with the dire warnings., they have to be read in light of the finished work of Christ. Like Grace777 keeps posting, we have to see everything in the Bible through the CROSS of Christ. Any other way is a wrong way. That is why we are called to rightly divide the Word of truth every time. The Holy Spirit can fix any wrong interpretation. Amen.