Should i wait,move on or just be single?

[Sia12]

Me and and my husband are separated,we've been separated for two years we have a son,even though we were separated he was still visiting my son like once a month,and my family did'nt know that he was still seeing my son becoz my family hate him esp my dad because of how he left me and my son to be with someone,but i forgave him coz the bible say to forgive.
The last time he came to visit my son was october last year can't rememba the date and havent seen him since.Then i found out from a mutual friend that his girlfriend is pregnant,the girlfriend was one of my bestfriend that i grew up with but wen i first found out it was her, i was so angry and hurt,there were nights wen i just couldnt sleep but cry, and then now that i have God in my life im so fill with love and peace.
There are times that I still think About Him and Asking Myself should I divorce Him or should i wait for hin to Come back?.This is the only reason why i dont want to divorce him and married someone else, Im So Scared That I made A vow To God That for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.

 

[Ugly]

The bible does say if an unbelieving spouse wants to leave you and divorce to let them.
It also says that adultery is a legitimate reason for divorce in Gods eyes. God never wants to see divorce, but He also understands we live in a world where people do not live according to His standards.

While there was a small possibility of your husband returning, now that he has a child with someone else i feel that lessens the chances. And if he has left you initially for another woman, and now is ignoring you and his own child, that makes the chances even more slim.

 

[Sia12]

Thanks for your help.God Bless

 

[agirlandherguitar]

If it were me I'd say: divorce 100%. I hate divorce, but I hate adultery even more. However, I'm not in that situation and you can't see as clearly when you're in the middle of it. Now that you have more peace in your life with God you can bring your requests to him and seek his wisdom. He will lead you down the right path if you trust him.

 

[pwrnJC]

The decision has already been made, by your husband. Take his cue, your marriage has long been over. He has chosen his own path and left you in his path of destruction. You and your son will make it because you have a firm base of operation...in CHRIST, and you have forgiveness in your heart. Hold your head up high and see all the awesome surprises GOD has in store for you and your son as you grow in HIM.

 

[gerlie]

I am separated i dont know if i am going to annulled, its really hurt he left me twice been praying to God for restoration but in 2 yrs he come back and i forgive him now he left me again

 

[tourist]

I am separated i dont know if i am going to annulled, its really hurt he left me twice been praying to God for restoration but in 2 yrs he come back and i forgive him now he left me again

Your post is sad and I am sure that you hurt real bad. I will pray that God's will and desire be done in your life. Welcome to CC.

 

[gerlie]

Thank you its really hard its killing me thag sometimes i ask God why,i deserved this.

 

[Sia12]

Gaww...that's exactly what happened to me n my husband we got separated how many times n then bak together n then one day he walked out on me n my son for good.It took me a long time to get over it.But I'm finally happy now God has shown me a reason for everything.
Im so thankfull to the Lord for everything he has done for Me n my son.
M advice is keep praying n fasting,have faith in him, forgive n forget ur husband.
Be strong u will make it trough this tough time.My prayer are with u my friend.
God Bless )