Sorry, just read this. I don't know if it's the sole problem but agree this made it worse too. People get hungrier and hungrier for affirmations by others and adjust behavior to be more people pleasing and vain. It's why I didn't like when notifications were introduced here, I tried to switch them off to not see when someone likes my post, only when they reply, but still get them I don't know why it didn't work.I was talking about as in friendships or dating. Sorry I didn't clarify.