Singlehood and Chastity

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one of the big reasons many men and sometimes Christian men don't get in to relationship is when you tell them you will be chase till marriage and they leave. this has been my issue since2018 when I decided to rededicate my life to God. I don't regret it. However I am scared when I am being approached for a relationship and I'm 37
 
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one of the big reasons many men and sometimes Christian men don't get in to relationship is when you tell them you will be chase till marriage and they leave. this has been my issue since2018 when I decided to rededicate my life to God. I don't regret it. However I am scared when I am being approached for a relationship and I'm 37
Ok if I'm understanding what you said correctly: you're worried / frustrated that men will pass you over because you're comitted to obeying God's commands about keeping sex within marriage.

Well there's a lot of men out there who will say they follow Jesus, but then you find out they aren't interested in actually obeying him. Personally, I find that to be concerning as then the question arises well what other things that God said is he not going to bother obeying.

Yeah good men seem in short supply. But there is a point at which you're better off single than with a man like that (since I see you're from a much different culture, the point at which you're better off single may be much different than my point so I'll leave that between you and God to determine)
 

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one of the big reasons many men and sometimes Christian men don't get in to relationship is when you tell them you will be chase till marriage and they leave. this has been my issue since2018 when I decided to rededicate my life to God. I don't regret it. However I am scared when I am being approached for a relationship and I'm 37
This is simple, if a 'Christian' man wants sex before marriage, drop it like it's hot. Don't make it complicated, there 'are good men out there. I know 2 couples who met on Christian Mingle and have got married and are doing good. They pray and are very family orientated. If you have doubts or fear that won't help. God bless and remember God's promises are yes and amen🙏😍