A closer look at the Apostasy
Proverbs 7:1 My son, keep my words, and lay up my commandments with thee.
The apostasy means to depart. There is a big debate over whether it refers to the rapture or whether it refers to the church departing from the Lord. The first use of this word refers to Jews departing from the words of Moses. So I'm not going to even bother with whether or not we are talking about the rapture, the New Testament clearly talks about God's people departing from His word and His commandments.
2 Keep my commandments, and live; and my law as the apple of thine eye.
One of the biggest debates today is over "works salvation". So let's address this. On the one hand there is absolutely nothing you can do to save yourself from sin. You have sinned, you are a debtor to sin, and you cannot pay off that debt, hence you are a slave to sin. Jesus paid the full price when He died on the cross and poured out His blood for you. The only way to be saved from sin is to receive Jesus' redemption, let the Lord's blood pay the price for your sin. To do that you must confess your sins and receive the salvation that Jesus wrought as a free gift of grace.
That said the New Testament commands us to "believe and be baptized". It isn't a suggestion, it is a command. You are not saved from sin by being baptized. According to the New Testament baptism is the testimony of a heart that is right with God. If you pray to the Lord and get saved you can tell your friends in the world and they will say "Cool". You can talk about the Lord's love, and peace and forgiveness and everyone will be fine with that. Not much different from someone telling them about how Yoga helps them or Transcendental Meditation or LSD. But, if you go and get baptized after believing watch their faces drop. "Why would you go and do that?" Finding God and being spiritual are fully acceptable in the world, but being baptized, no that is a testimony that you are leaving the world and following Jesus. That is not acceptable.
That was my testimony. I did not see any reason why I needed to be baptized, as far as I was concerned I was saved. However, they showed me in the word of God where we are told to believe and then be baptized (I had been christened as a child). My thought was "If Jesus says we need to do this fine, I'll do it". That obedience begins a new process of salvation, not from sin, but the salvation of your soul. We are rebellious, we are all doing what is right in our own eyes. To declare that Jesus is Lord is one thing, to actually do what He says, well that is proof that He is Lord of your life. This is why Philippians says to "work out your own salvation with fear and trembling". He isn't talking about salvation from sin, he is talking about the salvation of your rebellious soul.
3 Bind them upon thy fingers, write them upon the table of thine heart.
This is. a reference to the New Covenant that Ezekiel talks about where God will write His word on our heart. An engagement ring is "bound on your finger". When you bind the word to your actions then to God it is comparable to wearing an engagement ring. Anyone can say they love the Lord, but the Lord said "if you love Me why don't you do the things that I command?"
4 Say unto wisdom, Thou art my sister; and call understanding thy kinswoman:
Think of all the jokes about how no one can understand women. No one is going to understand the whole Bible from day one. Rather you get to know the Bible, think of it as a relationship where you get to know a close relative who is a woman.
5 That they may keep thee from the strange woman, from the stranger which flattereth with her words.
As a rule the women I am related to are more diplomatic and considerate of others feelings than I am. But they don't flatter with their words. They may show interest, they may appreciate certain things, but if there is something they don't like they will let you know. So this works equally well for a Pastor. A pastor should be more diplomatic, more considerate, more circumspect with his words than what you typically see in the world. No coarse jesting, no corrupt speech, etc. However, they aren't supposed to flatter you, that would be strange.
6 For at the window of my house I looked through my casement,
The church is the house of God, it is also the family of God. We don't have a thousand people living in one house as a family, that would be strange. The largest family I ever knew had sixteen children, but even so by the time the youngest was born (my friend) some of his oldest brothers and sisters had already gotten married and had kids of their own, so even then you didn't have all of them living under one roof. If the church you meet with is not like a family then something is strange. If you go to church and half the people are strangers then something is very strange about that church.
7 And beheld among the simple ones, I discerned among the youths, a young man void of understanding,
The reason people are in the apostasy is because they are void of understanding. They may quote Bible verses, but they are void of understanding the harm of being in that assembly. If you are in the apostasy, I don't mean that some of the people in the congregation are sinners, that is the church as the hospital. I mean that you are in a church that is leaving the word of God, a church that does not obey the commandments of God. They pick and choose what they will keep. I'm not talking about legalistic. For example, one rule in the New Testament is that the Pastor is the husband of one wife. If they ignore that and say it is out of date or sexist then they have departed from the word of God. They do that because they are void of understanding. The church is composed of men and women, hence the leader of the church needs to be both man and woman, to get that you need a pastor who is married. Second, we have a lot of damaged people who come into the church and the first evidence of damage is a damaged marriage. As a result we need the pastor to be an example to the flock showing them the way of salvation and one evidence that this is the case is a good marriage. No one knows the real situation of a man better than his wife and children, the best way to vet someone is to see that those relationships are good. This rule is not sexist, what is sexist is having a single person be the pastor whether male or female. This rule is not hypocritical, you aren't picking the guy who can speak the best, you are picking the guy who is the best example of a life lived for the Lord.
8 Passing through the street near her corner; and he went the way to her house,
Why do people who are void of understanding get attracted to the apostate churches? I find this expression strange "the way to her house". If I look out my window and see someone walking down the street or driving down the street I would not assume they were going "the way to a harlot's house". To me this sounds like there are big signs saying "this church, this way".
9 In the twilight, in the evening, in the black and dark night:
At this time it is very hard to see blemishes. The church should be a lighthouse, when you get into the meeting you should feel like you have stepped into the light. If you go to a church where you feel like you can hide and no one will see you that is a strange church. A church like this will be very comfortable for sinners. Think of being a sinner as being someone who has leprosy. You don't want to go into the light, it is exposing, but it is also the only way you will get well. We have to confess our sins and repent of them and the best way is to shine a bright light so that we can't ignore them.