Taming the tongue

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MicaelOhagan

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Sorry it's not very controversial
Bur it's at the root of Christian living
Well at least that's my experience
Maybe I'm wrong and the "important" matters should focus on the end times
Or the anti Christ
But I respectfully agree to differ
The real battle is individual and is not something or someone out there
Nope
It's neither
Trump
Nor Iran
It's internal
And for the scripture enlighteners there's no shortage to satisfy your tendancy to "teach" rather than to be more edifying and share your struggles
Even the mighty Paul wasn't afraid of that
 
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To tame the tongue one needs to delay a speech reflex. Rather than saying whatever we are driven to by our feelings, we should first try listening to it in out mind.
 
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Job 8:20 Behold, God will not cast away a perfect man, neither will he help the evil doers:

Psa 37:37 Mark the perfect man, and behold the upright: for the end of that man is peace.

Eph 4:13 Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ.

2Ti 3:16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
2Ti 3:17 That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.

God wants us to become a perfect man in our walk with Christ.

Jas 3:2 For in many things we offend all. If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body.

Jas 3:6 And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell.

Jas 3:8 But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.

The tongue is the most unruly member of the body.

If a person can tame the tongue then they will have no problem taming the rest of the body and become a perfect man.

Gal 5:16 This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.
Gal 5:24 And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.

But no person can tame the tongue so God has to tame the tongue.

2Ti 3:4 lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;
2Ti 3:5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.
2Ti 3:7 Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.

Some people deny the Spirit and will not be a perfect man.
 
The tongue controls the whole body like a rutter on a ship . brittle bit quick to listen slow to speak .But sometime the Holy spirit speak very quick and watch how puffy can't answer lol
 
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Of all things man is unable to tame the tongue.

James 3:8 states that "no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.
 
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Of all things man is unable to tame the tongue.

James 3:8 states that "no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

James said " out of the same mouth comes blessing and cursing. my brothers , this should not be".

100% true.

we should all ( me first) need to take that more seriously.
 
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