Dungeons are for people that are in some kind of prison. And love that is held in bondage to anyone is pure slavery to me. Any sort of control of another human being is a form of abuse really.
Although I seem to think that a lot of men maybe think that they have to control their spouse, is to control their love. But if that is the case then how can it truly be love that they had to begin with.
Love is always given through the heart . But can you imagine if you will- one of the founding fathers of the faith, Jacob working for Laban his father in law for 7 years in order to recieve Rachel as his bride. In the morning light it is Leah in his tent instead. No problem Laban tells him, work another 7 years and I will give you Rachel too. Must have been true love back then too? lol Maybe that Laban made love into to much work? lol Read that story in Genesis.