Good questions, plus there is the fact that in Hebrew the word for " spirit " is feminine, while in Greek usually nueter, and then masculine in Latin
It's rather hard to pin down a sex for God because God transcends things like " male and female ", which is similar to the problem of defining the name God gives in Exodus 3:14, ( " I AM " Vs " I will Be " Vs " I was " ) as there is no tense in any language that covers " eternal " or " was, is , and will be " simultaneously
In rabbinical literature the spirit is referred to as the " shekinah ", a feminine Hebrew word taken from a root word pertaining to the nesting place of doves , although the term is not used in the Tanakh, that I know of
I think it's interesting that in Revelation the New Jerusalem descends
adorned as a bride, as opposed to a bridegroom
" But Jerusalem which is above is free, which is
the mother of us all " - Galatians 4:26 ( Note: Eve was known as the
Mother of all living )
Jerusalem is the " city of the living God " - Hebrews 12:22
Galatians mentions Sarah as being representative of Jerusalem , but the chapter starts by saying
| " Now I say, That the heir, as long as he is a child, differeth nothing from a servant, though he be lord of all | |
" But is under tutors and governors until the time appointed of the father "
Interestingly, a Jewish wedding takes place at the time appointed by the father , the day and hour are only know by the father | |
Some messianics believe the physical body of the Tzaddik ( the " righteous One " AKA the Moshiach, the Messiah) already walks the earth and at the time appointed by God will be indwelt by the spirit, in essence a marriage of it's own