That is a good observation. I'm not really young, but I fit into the age range you described. I think I have an understanding why so many my age who grew up in Christian homes aren't really committed anymore. I really think the issue is not denominaton specific. Personally, I don't really see much of a difference between most denominations other than what they believe on paper. The problem I think is that there is a real lack of reality and depth in many churches. And, most young people need something real, powerful, and different from what secular society provides. I think too often churches try to make the gospel more palatable to youth by presenting it in such a fashion that it seems not that different from what they already live and can experience in the world. In an attempt to make the gospel more appealing and easier to swallow it accomplished the very opposite. I think that Christ's message was radical and required a total life commitment. It wasn't something you added to your life. It became your life. I think that younger people can already experience the best "excitement" and fun by living a totally secular lifestyle. They don't really need a religion that adds to their already self fulfilled life. Those that have a desire for something deeper are looking for a faith to challenge them and a cause to take up. You are going to get more interest if you are offering a gospel that is so entirely different from what society is offering.
Thank you.
May I ask what has kept you focused on Christ? From your perspective how can we challenge young adults?