things every woman wants to hear

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"Honey, I took out the trash today. I made you breakfast and I will cook the lunch as well. I dropped the kids at school. I will pick them up in the evening and take them for soccer practice."

If this doesn't make her melt, nothing else will. :rolleyes:
 
ServantStrike said:
Guys, don't ever use this as a line. It screws with a woman's emotions.


This is also something you should be saying to your sisters in christ, regardless of whether or not you're romantically interested in them - just preface it by saying you know they'll find the right one.
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please be a bit nicer in how you say things...Where did she say that this thread was only for those romantically inclined? Someone told her she had a beautiful heart and now you say someone was messing with her emotions.....
cmarieh, you have a beautiful heart and we can tell you are seeking Christ.
 
Roh_Chris said:
"Honey, I took out the trash today. I made you breakfast and I will cook the lunch as well. I dropped the kids at school. I will pick them up in the evening and take them for soccer practice."

If this doesn't make her melt, nothing else will. :rolleyes:
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You dropped the kids? Are they hurt? :p
 
kodiak said:
please be a bit nicer in how you say things...Where did she say that this thread was only for those romantically inclined? Someone told her she had a beautiful heart and now you say someone was messing with her emotions.....
cmarieh, you have a beautiful heart and we can tell you are seeking Christ.
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Thank You for sticking up for me. I really needed that right now.
 
ServantStrike said:
Guys, don't ever use this as a line. It screws with a woman's emotions.


This is also something you should be saying to your sisters in christ, regardless of whether or not you're romantically interested in them - just preface it by saying you know they'll find the right one.
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cmarieh said:
You took something I hold very dear to me and that made me look back and smile and made me feel awful. I realize that wasn't your intention, but please think about something before posting it.
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kodiak said:
please be a bit nicer in how you say things...Where did she say that this thread was only for those romantically inclined? Someone told her she had a beautiful heart and now you say someone was messing with her emotions.....
cmarieh, you have a beautiful heart and we can tell you are seeking Christ.
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cmarieh and kodiak, i think you misunderstood the post as SS meant it.

i don't think he meant to diminish the statement, and the manner in which you received it. considering this is a place where guys are trading lines that "every woman wants to hear", i think he is saying "guys, this isn't a line to use in a casual manner, because its depth and emotion."

which, would only be a credit that someone said that to you in earnest. : )
 
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Gandalf, youre making me think husbands are suffering their way trough marriage in SA...be that the thruth?:p
 
kodiak said:
please be a bit nicer in how you say things...Where did she say that this thread was only for those romantically inclined? Someone told her she had a beautiful heart and now you say someone was messing with her emotions.....
cmarieh, you have a beautiful heart and we can tell you are seeking Christ.
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I never said someone was messing with her emotions. I said I it would be bad if someone intended to mess with someones emotions.

Which is why I said it's something we should be telling our sisters in Christ - just with some caution not to get their hopes up.

I know I'm about as subtle as a train wreck, but I do generally try to be aware of the feelings of those around me. All I was pointing out was it's not a good pick up line.

gypsygirl said:
cmarieh and kodiak, i think you misunderstood the post as SS meant it.

i don't think he meant to diminish the statement, and the manner in which you received it. considering this is a place where guys are trading lines that "every woman wants to hear", i think he is saying "guys, this isn't a line to use in a casual manner, because its depth and emotion."

which, would only be a credit that someone said that to you in earnest. : )
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Yes, this.
 
ServantStrike said:
I never said someone was messing with her emotions. I said I it would be bad if someone intended to mess with someones emotions.

Which is why I said it's something we should be telling our sisters in Christ - just with some caution not to get their hopes up.

I know I'm about as subtle as a train wreck, but I do generally try to be aware of the feelings of those around me. All I was pointing out was it's not a good pick up line.
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Servant Strike,

I humbly come to you and ask you to forgive me. I really didn't have a good night last night and it clouded being able to comprehend what you were saying. After reflecting on what was said last night, it became clear to me what exactly you were saying to all of us. I believe I responded out of frustration of what I had to deal with last night and that was not fair to you or anyone else on this site and again I send my deepest apologies as it was wrong of me. My heart is actually breaking for what I have done and wish I could take everything back. You are a great man of God that is full of wisdom and understanding and I am grateful for your friendship that didn't deserve what happened.
 
ServantStrike said:
I never said someone was messing with her emotions. I said I it would be bad if someone intended to mess with someones emotions.

Which is why I said it's something we should be telling our sisters in Christ - just with some caution not to get their hopes up.

I know I'm about as subtle as a train wreck, but I do generally try to be aware of the feelings of those around me. All I was pointing out was it's not a good pick up line.



Yes, this.
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I am sorry I misunderstood you.....I still don't see how you get this from that. You said it messes with emotions if you do not handle it carefully by saying something like what you gave for an example.....we don't know what was said to her....so if it was meant in a nice way not to mess with her emotions and she read this the way I did, it would sound like the person was messing with her emotions.....Again I apologize, but I think we all need to watch how we say things.....
 
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cmarieh said:
Servant Strike,

I humbly come to you and ask you to forgive me. I really didn't have a good night last night and it clouded being able to comprehend what you were saying. After reflecting on what was said last night, it became clear to me what exactly you were saying to all of us. I believe I responded out of frustration of what I had to deal with last night and that was not fair to you or anyone else on this site and again I send my deepest apologies as it was wrong of me. My heart is actually breaking for what I have done and wish I could take everything back. You are a great man of God that is full of wisdom and understanding and I am grateful for your friendship that didn't deserve what happened.
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Oh stop.

There's nothing you've ever said to anyone on this site that even comes close to some of the things people on here have said to me. Heck, I've been far more abrasive at times.

tourist said:
I have told my wife this more than once.
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As you should brother, as you should.

kodiak said:
I am sorry I misunderstood you.....I still don't see how you get this from that. You said it messes with emotions if you do not handle it carefully by saying something like what you gave for an example.....we don't know what was said to her....so if it was meant in a nice way not to mess with her emotions and she read this the way I did, it would sound like the person was messing with her emotions.....Again I apologize, but I think we all need to watch how we say things.....
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I was watching how I said things. That was the entire point. I was not subtle - I said don't ever use it as a line, but do use it frequently to encourage sisters in Christ.

Why do I always end up on the defensive around here any more?
 
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