This forum is a MESS!can anyone debate without being rude?

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Anyone I have ever made mad...its was all a mistake ...im really very nice :)
 
Its hard when you type, because you can't see the expression of the face, or hear the inflections in the voice. and not all of us are great in communicating in written format.

oh, but you can tell when an old woman is having a stroke?? :p

just joshing you...good points you made. :)
 
Did you know that normal human communication (talking with each other face to face) is about 80% body language and tone of voice and 20% the words you use?
 
Did you know that normal human communication (talking with each other face to face) is about 80% body language and tone of voice and 20% the words you use?

True!

And face to face, somehow, many are "hindered" to play being rude that way.

Is it something that I hide behind the screen and a keyboard?
 
True!

And face to face, somehow, many are "hindered" to play being rude that way.

Is it something that I hide behind the screen and a keyboard?

That's a good question. I know some people that I would rather communicate with via the internet...haha
 
I'm interdenominational(not to be interpreted as non-denominational, because I attend and have attended many denominations) and have learned this is just how it is. Every denomination believes they are superior to another, when in actuality they are very much the same. None ever take the time to truly learn the other denominations and their beliefs, from this they misinterpret or misunderstand the beliefs of those denominations. Some discussions really do matter while others are vanity that we shouldn't even waste time on discussing. We can refute arguments according to scripture. Still many of the arguments have to deal with lack of knowledge and we all know what the Bible says about God's people who lack knowledge...

What matters is if what your believing God has taught not man and that you are living the life God has called you to the best you know how.

We are the body of Christ, a house divided can't stand.
 
I graduated from the school of Hard Knocks.

Brother Tourist, your comment reminds me of a funny incident that happened waaaay back in the 1980's. I was invited to my brother Johnny's church one Sunday evening which also happened to be Superbowl Sunday. His pastor commended the congregation for choosing to attend the evening service rather than remain home to watch the game. He then told the people, "Ok folks, I'm going to reward you all with a few moments of prideful celebration - when I count to three, shout out with all your might the name of your alma mater!"

As soon as he said three, you could hear my brother Johnny's booming voice above everyone as he howled, "SCHOOL OF HARD KNOCKS!" I laughed through most of the service that night not only because my brother's loud shout out was still reverberating in my brain, but because if the congregation only knew what a rebellious rascal my brother was before the Lord got a hold of him, they would have been in awe.

You know how the sons of Zebedee, James & John were nicknamed "the Sons of Thunder"? Well, my two oldest brothers, James (Jimmy) & John (Johnny) could have been their twins! :D
 
Everyone on this forum shows why a lot of people do not like Protestants. So much disunity on this forum it's digusting. Everyone thinking their doctrines are the only truth and that everyone who disagrees is in danger of going to Hell. Do you really believe God is that shallow to send one to Hell for misinterperting a certain verse?grow up!

The three most important things we need in discussion of the Bible are not found in the OP; love, respect and humility. Quite interesting as you attack "everyone on this forum". Well, "everyone on this forum" happens to include you because the word "everyone" is inclusive meaning you include yourself also. So you not only judged everyone else but you also judged yourself. I'm not perfect but as you just proved neither are you. :)
 
Brother Tourist, your comment reminds me of a funny incident that happened waaaay back in the 1980's. I was invited to my brother Johnny's church one Sunday evening which also happened to be Superbowl Sunday. His pastor commended the congregation for choosing to attend the evening service rather than remain home to watch the game. He then told the people, "Ok folks, I'm going to reward you all with a few moments of prideful celebration - when I count to three, shout out with all your might the name of your alma mater!"

As soon as he said three, you could hear my brother Johnny's booming voice above everyone as he howled, "SCHOOL OF HARD KNOCKS!" I laughed through most of the service that night not only because my brother's loud shout out was still reverberating in my brain, but because if the congregation only knew what a rebellious rascal my brother was before the Lord got a hold of him, they would have been in awe.

You know how the sons of Zebedee, James & John were nicknamed "the Sons of Thunder"? Well, my two oldest brothers, James (Jimmy) & John (Johnny) could have been their twins! :D

i just love your 'true story' s. :)
 
Nobody's perfect... that's why we can all use a little encouragement sometimes.

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But NOT this kind!!! LOL
 
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Another OP with no Bible verses, and other than a few bright lights and sometimes irrelevant scriptures, we are NOT discussing the Bible.

My thought is perhaps people are tired of grace vs works, so this is a side diversion??

"34 “Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35 For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. 36 And a person's enemies will be those of his own household." Matt 10:34-36

If we want to have real peace in this discussion, then we need to use the Bible, in context! Maybe I should "teach" hermeneutics in a thread, and we could all learn and/or review how to interpret the Bible. In the meantime let us all remember these words when discussions get heated:

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And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Phil. 4:7


 
I'd be interested in your teaching hermeneutics, Sister Angela!!! That would be awesome. :D
 
Another OP with no Bible verses, and other than a few bright lights and sometimes irrelevant scriptures, we are NOT discussing the Bible.

My thought is perhaps people are tired of grace vs works, so this is a side diversion??

"34 “Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35 For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. 36 And a person's enemies will be those of his own household." Matt 10:34-36

If we want to have real peace in this discussion, then we need to use the Bible, in context! Maybe I should "teach" hermeneutics in a thread, and we could all learn and/or review how to interpret the Bible. In the meantime let us all remember these words when discussions get heated:

"
And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Phil. 4:7



Hey Angela, remember my idea on the Gospel of Christ? Maybe we should start there :)
 
Did you know that normal human communication (talking with each other face to face) is about 80% body language and tone of voice and 20% the words you use?

Is it just me, but I think written communication is actually very well focused, because it cuts off all that confusing clutter to interpret. Especially when the picture doesnt match the sound. (so common)
It should be simple to discern without even seeing the person - Luke 6:45
 
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Nothing in my post suggested I was claiming to be perfect. You just don't agree with what I said.
 
Is it just me, but I think written communication is actually very well focused, because it cuts off all that confusing clutter to interpret. Especially when the picture doesnt match the sound. (so common)
It should be simple to discern without even seeing the person - Luke 6:45

I like it too. It is easier for me to assume the best intentions.....not all the time but generally speaking
 
I'm interdenominational(not to be interpreted as non-denominational, because I attend and have attended many denominations) and have learned this is just how it is. Every denomination believes they are superior to another, when in actuality they are very much the same. None ever take the time to truly learn the other denominations and their beliefs, from this they misinterpret or misunderstand the beliefs of those denominations. Some discussions really do matter while others are vanity that we shouldn't even waste time on discussing. We can refute arguments according to scripture. Still many of the arguments have to deal with lack of knowledge and we all know what the Bible says about God's people who lack knowledge...

What matters is if what your believing God has taught not man and that you are living the life God has called you to the best you know how.

We are the body of Christ, a house divided can't stand.

I like that!

I don´t want to wear any label and, when reading this, few minutes ago, I noticed one thing I will leave in bold letters:

Rev 3:9 Listen! There is a group that belongs to Satan. They say they are Jews, but they are liars. They are not true Jews. I will make them come before you and bow at your feet. They will know that you are the people I have loved. (ERV)

Rev 3:9 Behold, I will make those of the synagogue of Satan who say that they are Jews and are not, but lie—behold, I will make them come and bow down before your feet, and they will learn that I have loved you. (ESV)


Rev 3:9 ἰδοὺ διδωμι ἐκ τῆς συναγωγῆς τοῦ Σατανᾶ τῶν λεγόντων ἑαυτοὺς ᾿Ιουδαίους εἶναι, καὶ οὐκ εἰσὶν, ἀλλὰ ψεύδονται· ἰδοὺ ποιήσω αὐτοὺς ἵνα ἥξουσι καὶ προσκυνήσουσιν ἐνώπιον τῶν ποδῶν σου, καὶ γνῶσιν ὅτι ἐγὼ ἠγάπησά σε.

Rev 3:9 Listen! As for that group that belongs to Satan, those liars who claim that they are Jews but are not, I will make them come and bow down at your feet. They will all know that I love you. (GNB)


Allow me to take heed of this:

Rev 3:8 I know what you do; I know that you have a little power; you have followed my teaching and have been faithful to me. I have opened a door in front of you, which no one can close.

My label is: I´m a sinner.
 
Amen!i was watching a TV preacher the other day say God looks beyond Denomations and it really touched me!but I don't see any wrong with someone saying "I'm a Baptist" "I'm a Pentecostal" "I'm a Methodist" etc. sometimes it's helpful to know someone's denomational preference.
 
Amen!i was watching a TV preacher the other day say God looks beyond Denomations and it really touched me!but I don't see any wrong with someone saying "I'm a Baptist" "I'm a Pentecostal" "I'm a Methodist" etc. sometimes it's helpful to know someone's denomational preference.

Do you accept denominationalism and reject the bible or accept the bible and rejection denominationalism? You cannot have it both ways, so which do you choose?
 
Do you accept denominationalism and reject the bible or accept the bible and rejection denominationalism? You cannot have it both ways, so which do you choose?

I'm not understanding what your saying. I believe in both whether you like it or not.