Thoughts on Attractiveness vs Unattractiveness

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seoulsearch said:
Kakashi, if you agreed to go out with me, I PROMISE I wouldn't make you wear a wig or special contacs or fake ears... PROMISE! :)
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But it would probably help if you could kill an enormous mythical elephant-esque creature with a bow and arrow, or surf down a flight of stairs on a shield.
 
MusicalMe said:
But it would probably help if you could kill an enormous mythical elephant-esque creature with a bow and arrow, or surf down a flight of stairs on a shield.
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This is a girl who truly understands talent :). Back to topic though... I do agree that true beauty, value, and attractiveness is an entire package--and who the person is on the inside is about 95% of the package, I think. In some cases, even more. As I've said before, the guys I found attractive were generally the ones other girls thought I was crazy to like, but... I kind of enjoyed having different preferences than anyone else.
 
missy2shoes said:
I find both Hugh Jackman and Sean Connery attractive.....explain that people!! lol
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I agree!

One thing I have to say is that attraction can change. I can think of several guys who I didn't think were attractive. Once I got to know them, and their personality came out, especially sense of humor, I suddenly found my opinion changed. Oh, actually they are kind of attractive. You can definitely have a first attraction or not but it can change. It can go the other way, I've had crushes on guys, and they faded and I no longer felt butterfly-ish when I saw them. I suppose they were still attractive but I no longer was affected by it.

Here's another thing. I do not date, I do not get asked out. I do not consider myself attractive and that is pretty much validated by the lack of male interest. (don't mistake this statement as self pity or fishing for opinions, this is just how it is) So when a friend told me a couple of her guy friends thought I was cute I was very puzzled. I guess there is a difference in passively thinking someone is attractive and actually wanting to act on it. I don't know.
 
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