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Hey all,long time no see.Some of you may remember a while back I mentioned a pastor and his wife,friends of mine that were going through marriage trouble. They pastored a church I was in several years ago. I had talked about her and her issues with insecurity. Well last night she wrote me with an update.She has decided to divorce him. I guess she found out that he had cheated with two women,(that he is admitting to).
I cant blame her for divorcing but she told me that she has a male friend that has been helping her through this difficult time, and he's not a Christian but is willing to go to church with her. I told her to take things slow and to be very careful. But its rather hard to give advice to your former pastors wife.She wrote me tonight and said she heard her soon to be ex is going to marry the woman he cheated with as soon as the divorce comes through. She was upset and I told her she was lucky to be rid of him. I feel bad for her,Im still stunned that he would do such a thing. He has grown children and grandkids for pity sake. I want to give good advice but Im having a hard time considering they were people I looked up to. I think the world of her but I think she is very vulnerable and could make a big mistake. Anyone have this type of situation or advice on how to handle it? Hope you all are doing well.
I cant blame her for divorcing but she told me that she has a male friend that has been helping her through this difficult time, and he's not a Christian but is willing to go to church with her. I told her to take things slow and to be very careful. But its rather hard to give advice to your former pastors wife.She wrote me tonight and said she heard her soon to be ex is going to marry the woman he cheated with as soon as the divorce comes through. She was upset and I told her she was lucky to be rid of him. I feel bad for her,Im still stunned that he would do such a thing. He has grown children and grandkids for pity sake. I want to give good advice but Im having a hard time considering they were people I looked up to. I think the world of her but I think she is very vulnerable and could make a big mistake. Anyone have this type of situation or advice on how to handle it? Hope you all are doing well.