Welcome to the Obstinate Outline Outliers Club -- What Things Do YOU Do Differently from What You Were Taught? And What About Your Children?

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Just seen this thread and KNOW it's one i will love Seoul. What's an outline??? Heh! You're right, inspiration/winging and prayering it are my primary methods too.

Also, i'm basically ambidexterous, definitely inclined to use the most useful hand for a task. Probably why i process info so quickly too as the brain is similar to a muscle, strong connections for transfer between the hemispheres. I also think the heart is where our actual mind/consciousness resides and that the brain is really a conduit for the heart's thought processes.

Hope that makes sense to someone apart from me :cool:

This is amazing.

I can only remember meeting one other person who was ambidextrous (or at least, the only one who mentioned this.)

At what age did you discover you could do things with either hand? Was it confusing when you heard everyone else talking about having a dominant hand?

Very interesting about the heart being the center of thought and the brain just a conduit...

That would explain a lot of things.

Thank you very much for mentioning this! :)
 
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This reminds me of the whole debate over phonics vs whole word reading...

OMG. There was this one teacher Lucy Calkins who had this entire curriculum made purporting to teach children how to read. It did not! It just got them to make things up and PRETEND they knew how to read by guessing the words.

Now an entire generation have become illiterate as a result.
 
Listen to 'Sold A Story' podcast to get the deets on that one. Or if you CAN read, get the transcription!

I was gobsmacked that this ever got a pass in education. And one of the instigators was originally from New Zealand. Shameful!
 
Just seen this thread and KNOW it's one i will love Seoul. What's an outline??? Heh! You're right, inspiration/winging and prayering it are my primary methods too.

Also, i'm basically ambidexterous, definitely inclined to use the most useful hand for a task. Probably why i process info so quickly too as the brain is similar to a muscle, strong connections for transfer between the hemispheres. I also think the heart is where our actual mind/consciousness resides and that the brain is really a conduit for the heart's thought processes.

Hope that makes sense to someone apart from me :cool:

I was ambidextrous too. Especially when it came to play my favorite sport, baseball. I was an expert at striking out left and right.
 
I was ambidextrous too. Especially when it came to play my favorite sport, baseball. I was an expert at striking out left and right.
Know what Billy, i think ambidexterity was part of our creation, that it's natural to us. It makes sense to me that part of the Lords's design, was for us to use both hemispheres pretty equally. They have different strengths, both have their uses for certain tasks.
 
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This is amazing.

I can only remember meeting one other person who was ambidextrous (or at least, the only one who mentioned this.)

At what age did you discover you could do things with either hand? Was it confusing when you heard everyone else talking about having a dominant hand?

Very interesting about the heart being the center of thought and the brain just a conduit...

That would explain a lot of things.

Thank you very much for mentioning this! :)
Cheers and hugs Seoul, glad i mentioned something you think could be useful. From what i remember, ambidexterity was natural to me and still is, I automatically use the most appropriate hand. A few teachers tried to force me to write with my right hand, without success and thankfully i was bright enough for them not to want my grades to drop. Think we all have something about us that stands out some, however, it's just natural to ourselves and part of who we are. I wasn't troubled by it and once people get used to seeing how i do things, it doesn't seem weird to them anymore.

We know the world is ruled by Satan and his minions, they currently have control over many aspects of our lives and don't want us developing love for and trust in our Creator. It seems logical to me they lie to prevent us from realising our true potential, through the wondrous gifts we were created with. We're fallen but many of them still work to a degree, now you're considering the heart might be more influential than you thought, when something really strikes you; try to focus on where it originates. When i started doing that, i realised it was coming from my heart, not my head, bet you'll feel similar if you give it a go, after all, the heart is the seat of motivation. Which i think backs up my thoughts on it's role.

Hope that makes sense and it's lovely seeing you Seoulsis, blessings, hugs and all else that's good for now 🤗
 
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This is amazing.

I can only remember meeting one other person who was ambidextrous (or at least, the only one who mentioned this.)

At what age did you discover you could do things with either hand? Was it confusing when you heard everyone else talking about having a dominant hand?

Very interesting about the heart being the center of thought and the brain just a conduit...

That would explain a lot of things.

Thank you very much for mentioning this! :)
Greetings and hugs Seoulsis 🤗

Posting a couple of things related to our chat on this thread, which i think will be really interesting to you too. The first one is an article from the BBC, which is considerably less hostile to ambidexterity than most sources:


Think it's interesting Lindsay the therapist says handedness usually develops between 3 and 6 years old. Which means it could well be because of external influence rather than personal choice, there's evidence that both hand use was common in at least the first half of the last millennium. What's interesting too is that left handed people use more of their brain than right handed people naturally. The difference is even greater with ambidextrous people, because we use both hemispheres so much more than single handed people. When i had a brain scan the neurologist said my brain was like a Christmas tree, because of the activity. Which doesn't equate to being of superior intelligence, it's an operational difference.

Posting a link to an interesting, relevant video featuring Dr John Lennox: and will also paste part of the transcript:

Oxford Professor: AI Is Humanity’s Attempt to Make God — John Lennox


And the section of the transcript:

"But I like the explanation that Iain McGilchrist is giving of this in his books, notably his most recent one, The Matter with Things. He points out that, in his terms as a neuroscientist, we’ve got two halves to our brain. One, roughly speaking, is the science side — finding out what things are. And then there’s the other half, the right side of the brain, that looks at what things mean. He said if you look at us now, we’ve ended up in a universe where we know how almost everything works, but we know the meaning of nothing.

That’s a very powerful point. It was also picked up by our late Chief Rabbi, Lord Sacks, who is always worth reading — very much worth reading. He wrote a little book on science and religion. He put McGilchrist’s idea this way: science takes things apart to see how they work; religion puts them together to see what they mean.

McGilchrist’s thesis is that for 500 years or so, we have put such emphasis on the left side of the brain that we’ve omitted the right side. And therefore we live in a universe where we understand how almost everything works and the meaning of nothing. He therefore calls for space for the transcendent, for the wonderful, for the beautiful, and for God."

Think it'll interest you Seoulsis, hugs and all that's good for now 🤗
 
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I taught my children the four basic food colors and told them that so long as they stuck with those colors they'd be okay. Interestingly, fruit loops and starbursts both contained the 4 basic food colors. I hope my kids are eating healthier now that they're on their own.

I taught my kids that they should be first in line at potlucks. I enjoyed watching them trying to be first. Hopefully they're just a little bit more reserved at potlucks now, just a little.
 
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I taught my kids that they should be first in line at potlucks. I enjoyed watching them trying to be first. Hopefully they're just a little bit more reserved at potlucks now, just a little.


Why am I thinking I need to take classes from your kids about how to make the front of the line at potlucks...

Er, I mean.

I'm just asking... for a friend. :cool:
 
Recently I realized journey is more important, or more exciting than goal.
Reaching goal is good, but the journey is equally good, if not better.

Every one's journey is different, even if they reach the same goal.
 
That's so true, i think of reaching each goal as a staging post before beginning the journey to another one. As a newish Christian, it rocks to now know the Lord offers us an eternity of such journeys. :love:

Heh! It was the right thread.:LOL:
 
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Did anyone read Revelation BEFORE they read Genesis in the Bible? lol
Or the New Testament before the Old?

Or what about the people who assume the person they date is going to marry them? They paint a future in their imaginations when the other half hasn't even proposed.

I am not saying I do this or jump to conclusions...but I think its not the best thing to do. Imagine living life with the constant thought that you are going to die, because that's what happens to everyone in the end.