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People shouldnt have to tell you that you better do this...you better do that....IF you have the spirit living and dwelling inside, youll feel the conviction and WANT to do those things to grow in your walk with God. Sure , people may share things with you, even feel led to tell you things God laid upon their heart, Im not gonna be offended over what people say, ultimately its about what God says, if your un-sure, pray about it, if you find yourself amongst bossy, mean, un-loving ppl.......real sudden like, find different friends.