What are a person's RED FLAGS that say, "don't date me."
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Maddog
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200 pounds...so thats just over 14 stone. Either you require your men to be to be really tall, or you like big beer guts.
If it's a beer gut thing, then I've got a decent one, but I'm afraid I'm still more than stone off your required specifications.
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Jullianna
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THIS IS A HUGE RED FLAG:
"Where do you want to go?" "I dunno. Where do you want to go?" "What do you want to do today?" "I dunno. What do you want to do today?" "What do you think of this news article?" "I dunno. What do you think?" "Who are you going to vote for?" "I dunno. Who do you like?"
Guys who wait to see what you think about a thing or how you feel about it before they will be honest about what they think or feel drive me nuts. I admire original thought, even if I disagree. Talking with myself is kinda boring.
Guys who have the guts to speak their minds are AWESOME. A guy asked me out once, I kinda gave him the brush off, he smiled and flipped me off, I started laughing hysterically and immediate said yes. I know it's wrong on so many levels, but I absolutely loved it.
"Where do you want to go?" "I dunno. Where do you want to go?" "What do you want to do today?" "I dunno. What do you want to do today?" "What do you think of this news article?" "I dunno. What do you think?" "Who are you going to vote for?" "I dunno. Who do you like?"
Guys who wait to see what you think about a thing or how you feel about it before they will be honest about what they think or feel drive me nuts. I admire original thought, even if I disagree. Talking with myself is kinda boring.
Guys who have the guts to speak their minds are AWESOME. A guy asked me out once, I kinda gave him the brush off, he smiled and flipped me off, I started laughing hysterically and immediate said yes. I know it's wrong on so many levels, but I absolutely loved it.
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah
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See_KING_Truth
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THIS IS A HUGE RED FLAG:
"Where do you want to go?" "I dunno. Where do you want to go?" "What do you want to do today?" "I dunno. What do you want to do today?" "What do you think of this news article?" "I dunno. What do you think?" "Who are you going to vote for?" "I dunno. Who do you like?"
Guys who wait to see what you think about a thing or how you feel about it before they will be honest about what they think or feel drive me nuts. I admire original thought, even if I disagree. Talking with myself is kinda boring.
I think people who do that all the time are too worried about what others think about them and their opinions...which is also a red flag
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Jullianna
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The confidence that comes from knowing who you are and what you do/don't like is incredible. At least it is to me when I see it in a guy. People pleasers try to mold themselves into whatever they think the person they are interested in would be happy with and then, down the line, when things don't work out, they wonder what went wrong. :/
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah
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THIS IS A HUGE RED FLAG:
"Where do you want to go?" "I dunno. Where do you want to go?" "What do you want to do today?" "I dunno. What do you want to do today?" "What do you think of this news article?" "I dunno. What do you think?" "Who are you going to vote for?" "I dunno. Who do you like?"
Guys who wait to see what you think about a thing or how you feel about it before they will be honest about what they think or feel drive me nuts. I admire original thought, even if I disagree. Talking with myself is kinda boring.
Guys who have the guts to speak their minds are AWESOME. A guy asked me out once, I kinda gave him the brush off, he smiled and flipped me off, I started laughing hysterically and immediate said yes. I know it's wrong on so many levels, but I absolutely loved it.
Yes! This is a real pet peeve of mine. The whole "i dunno" thing.
THIS IS A HUGE RED FLAG:
"Where do you want to go?" "I dunno. Where do you want to go?" "What do you want to do today?" "I dunno. What do you want to do today?" "What do you think of this news article?" "I dunno. What do you think?" "Who are you going to vote for?" "I dunno. Who do you like?"
Guys who wait to see what you think about a thing or how you feel about it before they will be honest about what they think or feel drive me nuts. I admire original thought, even if I disagree. Talking with myself is kinda boring.
Guys who have the guts to speak their minds are AWESOME. A guy asked me out once, I kinda gave him the brush off, he smiled and flipped me off, I started laughing hysterically and immediate said yes. I know it's wrong on so many levels, but I absolutely loved it.
Maybe it's just because I'm not the right guy for you, but "Where do you want to go" and "What do you want to do" are completely different from "what do you think of this"...
Personally, I don't have a strong opinion about places or activities. Does that make me boring? Hmmm, maybe. Now if you want my opinion on something that really matters, just try and shut me up.
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Jullianna
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LOL! 
I don't often have strong feelings about places or things I want to do either. My point was more that some people never seem to have an opinion about anything, no matter how important or insignificant the issue.
I don't often have strong feelings about places or things I want to do either. My point was more that some people never seem to have an opinion about anything, no matter how important or insignificant the issue.
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See_KING_Truth
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Red Flags: She is decked out in jewelry, which often = high maintanence
- If you don't recognize her when you see her without make-up on lol
- If you don't recognize her when you see her without make-up on lol
Liamson i am officially a fan of yours.
However i am not a fan of traveling, motorcycles, rollercoasters, dirt, and i am lactose intolerant. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
but. i don't think my purpose in life is to make babies.
ok. but in all seriousness. (that was serious. it's just also funny)
ummm.
1) an unteachable spirit. meaning they think they know it all.
2) theological doctrine has to be the same as mine on several main points: Holy Spirit, Israel, Prophecy, tribulation, and YESHUA IS KING.
3) a guy who makes jokes about things i take seriously. some things are just NOT funny.
4) a debater. someone who has to have the upper hand in a discussion. someone who you can tell enjoys the challenge just a bit too much bc they push everything.
and 5) a strong need to have a dog.
and i love reading these answers. you guys are all hysterical.
However i am not a fan of traveling, motorcycles, rollercoasters, dirt, and i am lactose intolerant. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
but. i don't think my purpose in life is to make babies.
ok. but in all seriousness. (that was serious. it's just also funny)
ummm.
1) an unteachable spirit. meaning they think they know it all.
2) theological doctrine has to be the same as mine on several main points: Holy Spirit, Israel, Prophecy, tribulation, and YESHUA IS KING.
3) a guy who makes jokes about things i take seriously. some things are just NOT funny.
4) a debater. someone who has to have the upper hand in a discussion. someone who you can tell enjoys the challenge just a bit too much bc they push everything.
and 5) a strong need to have a dog.
and i love reading these answers. you guys are all hysterical.
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Jullianna
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LOVE that one!
People who are more interested in trying to impress others with what they think they know rather than actually discussing a thing and looking at it from a different perspective....arrrghTHIS IS A HUGE RED FLAG:
"Where do you want to go?" "I dunno. Where do you want to go?" "What do you want to do today?" "I dunno. What do you want to do today?" "What do you think of this news article?" "I dunno. What do you think?" "Who are you going to vote for?" "I dunno. Who do you like?"
Guys who wait to see what you think about a thing or how you feel about it before they will be honest about what they think or feel drive me nuts. I admire original thought, even if I disagree. Talking with myself is kinda boring.
Guys who have the guts to speak their minds are AWESOME. A guy asked me out once, I kinda gave him the brush off, he smiled and flipped me off, I started laughing hysterically and immediate said yes. I know it's wrong on so many levels, but I absolutely loved it.
So what do you think I should say in this thread? Whatever you think will be right by me. I only want to say what you want me to say.
And if I say anything that you didn't want me to say, please say it!
LOVE that one!
why thank you jullianna! i also adore yours: what do you want to do? i don't know.
that was literally how it was with my ex boyfriend. 'I picked the activity last time'. 'no I did, it's your turn. i can't decide.' grrrrrrrrrr. lol.
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Jullianna
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So what do you think I should say in this thread? Whatever you think will be right by me. I only want to say what you want me to say.
There was a time when I would have said something entirely inappropriate in response to this. I'm a christian now.
There was a time when I would have said something entirely inappropriate in response to this. I'm a christian now.
LOL I think I got the message anyway
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah
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what? I think you have that backwards...
Things that are red and blow in the wind are called "red flags"!!
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