What Are Some Things You've Stopped Buying/Have Cut Back On?

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Hey Everyone,

I like listening to videos with titles like, "14 Things I've Stopped Buying," because it helps keep me mindful of my own consumption and spending. Of course, not all the ideas apply to me or are things I can relate to, but my favorite part is when people talk about how they've learned to cope (using less expensive things,) or came to realize they no longer needed certain items.

In a recent video, the host talked about moving to a different climate, so she no longer needed to stockpile scarves; realizing she had so many candles that some were over 4 years old; and facing the fact that no matter how many products she bought, she'd never get her naturally straight hair to turn into the scrunch-and-go curly style she was hoping for.

With just a few honest evaluations at how she really lived her life -- and what does, and does not, work for her -- she was able to eliminate a long list of things she'd been buying on a regular basis.

I already do things like buying store brands instead of name brands (unless it's Tide laundry detergent, as anything else I've tried makes me break out in hives,) but I'm really trying to cut down on needless spending.

One luxury I used to allow myself (but only when they were on sale!) was scented candles, but after having to admit that they now seem to give me headaches -- even though I have the windows open -- I'm going to use up what I already have and alas, will have to kiss them goodbye. In fact, I've decided I'm going to cut down on scented products in general, both to save money and because I seem to be more sensitive to fragrance than I was willing to admit.

I pretty much never eat out, but I haven't minded because one of my favorite things are deli sandwiches, and my local grocery store sells them at a reasonable price. A good sandwich quells most of my cravings for take-out food.

And, like the host in the aforementioned video, I've had to be honest in that no matter what products I buy, I can't make my hair do things it just doesn't have the natural texture for, so from now on, I'll only be buying basic products and making the most of them.

How about you?

* What are some things you're doing to cut back?

* Have you switched brands, bought alternatives, or cut things out altogether?

* Have you noticed things in your life have changed, and you no longer need to buy certain things?

* What are things you miss buying?

* What are things you've discovered you don't really miss?

With times being tough for everyone, I'm interested in hearing how everyone is coping.
 
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Milk from a local farm. Don't get that anymore.

The homemade pudding and boiled custard I used to make was delicious, but I was always racing to finish it before it went bad. My blood sugar tolerance per day is limited, so I had to give it up.
 
I'm cutting back on my nonessential shopping (thrift stores, amazon, dollar stores, etsy). I really don't need anything else; sometimes I feel like I have so much stuff I could open my own shop lol!

I never ate out very often but I used to go to a restaurant or café once in a while. But now, I honestly can't remember that last time I've had a meal out! Like you, @seoulsearch I enjoy a deli sandwich too. Sandwiches are one of my favorite things to eat. I'll make mine at home now instead of going to Subway. I also really like pizza, but they're just so darn expensive, especially if you get toppings. Recently I found a good dough recipe and I've made it a couple times since. Saves A LOT of money. I'll link the recipe in case anyone wanted to try it. https://www.thefreshcooky.com/pizza-dough-recipe/#wprm-recipe-container-28066

I was going to join a gym, I found one that didn't charge a kidney! But when I calculated the costs with commuting, registration fees, monthly fee, and all that jazz it would cost me well over $1,000 per year and I can't justify that. Instead I ordered some simple exercise equipment that I can use at home and it cost a tiny fraction of the cost.
 
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- cleaning products (its a gimmick) you only need 2 or 3 easily, even less if you're super innovative
- candles- we actually have an air filter instead. Both my parents and in-laws got them after us. With wildfires constantly happening I'm so happy we have them now. No desire for candles. Plus with kids and dog very unsafe.
- whole foods and water as much as possible- frozen chicken (cheaper and doesn't go bad), frozen big fruit &veggies bags is cheaper- great value for most snacks. I never buy$5 chips. Junk food is junk food.
- little to no decor for seasons & most holidays- I have Fall and Christmas Decor. All fits in 2 bins and I'm not buying more. Only exception is ornaments for my kids but that's more about the experience.
- No subscriptions- subscriptions are the hidden debt of today's world. Most people forget or don't even know all their subscriptions. It's sneaky bc it's a small amount taken quickly automatically. But that amount really adds up! We have tubi (free TV movies), prime (only bc it's free for us from my husband's side hustle), and youtube. Also the library for books & they have a free app for free books online. That's way better than kindle. What more do you need? 😆
- simplified make-up and nails- I don't get them done. I have a uv light for gel nails.
- no Doordash, grub hub, etc you over pay for all of it
- shop around for internet and car insurance. Use an insurance broker for car. They work for you, not the insurance company. They'll find you the best deals.
- clothes- rarely buy for myself. Shop at good will, once upon a child, and sams club for kids (my sams is free from my parents but also they use the money that accrues from points to pay for their subscription each year so it's free). I but mostly main brand clothes for my kids and it's all thrifted. I see people with Mercedes-Benz going into kid thrift stores to buy clothes as well. 😆 I also sell the clothes back to them when I'm done which saves some too.
-I try to use washable dishes over throw away whenever possibly, same with bags, reuse grocery bags for trash bags (will never buy little trash bags). I use cardboard for drawer organizing.

I think that's pretty much it. 🤔 A lot of it comes from experience though. I can't stand the consumer mindset anymore, unless it's a quality product. I don't buy Chinese garbage like temu. Starbucks is another nope. We get 20 nuggets and basket of fries for 8 dollars at McDonald's for family of 4. I will never pay more than 20 dollars for fast food. It's literally the same crap when I was a kid, but 5 times as expensive!
 
cut the cable tv with Xfinity
dropped collision car insurance
very, very little fast food - Dominos pizza with a promo code is about it
 
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By never in my life purchasing any kind of tv service, I've saved upwards of $120,000 after tax dollars over the course of my life. When you add up all the stuff you're paying for that you maybe could do without, you're talking big bucks over the course of your life. Chump change per month over decades adds up to real money.
 
we haven't cut back on anything but we stopped buying fast food which was years ago, non-organic food, i stopped buying soda & candy bars back in the 90's & my wife just quit buying hot chocolate last week. i don't miss anything i stopped buying. but what we buy more of is steak, lobster, crab legs, Maryland & blue lump crab cakes & organic farm raised hamburg. in fact, i'm making a cheeseburger right now! yeah!! can't wait.
 
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we haven't cut back on anything but we stopped buying fast food which was years ago, non-organic food, i stopped buying soda & candy bars back in the 90's & my wife just quit buying hot chocolate last week. i don't miss anything i stopped buying. but what we buy more of is steak, lobster, crab legs, Maryland & blue lump crab cakes & organic farm raised hamburg. in fact, i'm making a cheeseburger right now! yeah!! can't wait.
trade you the best prime rib in the world for some crabcakes? Do you have a favorite recipe/brand?
blessings
 
Hey Everyone,

I like listening to videos with titles like, "14 Things I've Stopped Buying," because it helps keep me mindful of my own consumption and spending. Of course, not all the ideas apply to me or are things I can relate to, but my favorite part is when people talk about how they've learned to cope (using less expensive things,) or came to realize they no longer needed certain items.

In a recent video, the host talked about moving to a different climate, so she no longer needed to stockpile scarves; realizing she had so many candles that some were over 4 years old; and facing the fact that no matter how many products she bought, she'd never get her naturally straight hair to turn into the scrunch-and-go curly style she was hoping for.

With just a few honest evaluations at how she really lived her life -- and what does, and does not, work for her -- she was able to eliminate a long list of things she'd been buying on a regular basis.

I already do things like buying store brands instead of name brands (unless it's Tide laundry detergent, as anything else I've tried makes me break out in hives,) but I'm really trying to cut down on needless spending.

One luxury I used to allow myself (but only when they were on sale!) was scented candles, but after having to admit that they now seem to give me headaches -- even though I have the windows open -- I'm going to use up what I already have and alas, will have to kiss them goodbye. In fact, I've decided I'm going to cut down on scented products in general, both to save money and because I seem to be more sensitive to fragrance than I was willing to admit.

I pretty much never eat out, but I haven't minded because one of my favorite things are deli sandwiches, and my local grocery store sells them at a reasonable price. A good sandwich quells most of my cravings for take-out food.

And, like the host in the aforementioned video, I've had to be honest in that no matter what products I buy, I can't make my hair do things it just doesn't have the natural texture for, so from now on, I'll only be buying basic products and making the most of them.

How about you?

* What are some things you're doing to cut back?

* Have you switched brands, bought alternatives, or cut things out altogether?

* Have you noticed things in your life have changed, and you no longer need to buy certain things?

* What are things you miss buying?

* What are things you've discovered you don't really miss?

With times being tough for everyone, I'm interested in hearing how everyone is coping.
- cleaning products (its a gimmick) you only need 2 or 3 easily, even less if you're super innovative
- candles- we actually have an air filter instead. Both my parents and in-laws got them after us. With wildfires constantly happening I'm so happy we have them now. No desire for candles. Plus with kids and dog very unsafe.
- whole foods and water as much as possible- frozen chicken (cheaper and doesn't go bad), frozen big fruit &veggies bags is cheaper- great value for most snacks. I never buy$5 chips. Junk food is junk food.
- little to no decor for seasons & most holidays- I have Fall and Christmas Decor. All fits in 2 bins and I'm not buying more. Only exception is ornaments for my kids but that's more about the experience.
- No subscriptions- subscriptions are the hidden debt of today's world. Most people forget or don't even know all their subscriptions. It's sneaky bc it's a small amount taken quickly automatically. But that amount really adds up! We have tubi (free TV movies), prime (only bc it's free for us from my husband's side hustle), and youtube. Also the library for books & they have a free app for free books online. That's way better than kindle. What more do you need? 😆
- simplified make-up and nails- I don't get them done. I have a uv light for gel nails.
- no Doordash, grub hub, etc you over pay for all of it
- shop around for internet and car insurance. Use an insurance broker for car. They work for you, not the insurance company. They'll find you the best deals.
- clothes- rarely buy for myself. Shop at good will, once upon a child, and sams club for kids (my sams is free from my parents but also they use the money that accrues from points to pay for their subscription each year so it's free). I but mostly main brand clothes for my kids and it's all thrifted. I see people with Mercedes-Benz going into kid thrift stores to buy clothes as well. 😆 I also sell the clothes back to them when I'm done which saves some too.
-I try to use washable dishes over throw away whenever possibly, same with bags, reuse grocery bags for trash bags (will never buy little trash bags). I use cardboard for drawer organizing.

I think that's pretty much it. 🤔 A lot of it comes from experience though. I can't stand the consumer mindset anymore, unless it's a quality product. I don't buy Chinese garbage like temu. Starbucks is another nope. We get 20 nuggets and basket of fries for 8 dollars at McDonald's for family of 4. I will never pay more than 20 dollars for fast food. It's literally the same crap when I was a kid, but 5 times as expensive!
I've given up my drinking chocolate , used to have at least one a night before bed , and I've already lost two pounds in weight ! Also given up my weekly bottle of wine and my skin is much better . My cat needed some dental work recently and it cost us a small fortune so we've had to cut back on a few little things . On the plus side , he's very much happier now and we have lost a little bit of weight 😻👍😁 .
 
trade you the best prime rib in the world for some crabcakes? Do you have a favorite recipe/brand?
blessings
i'll pass on that, i don't like prime rib but that's 1 of my wife's favorites. she orders that half the time we dine out. Cameron's & Angelina's are tops.
 
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beef is carnivore........
do you have a preferred recipe or brand of crab cakes?
 
How about you?

Another very good topic Seoul !!!

I'm paying a lot more attention to "buy one get one" deals at grocery stores.

I still buy beef because I enjoy a good burger. I work to hard not to have the enjoyment that comes with a burger.

I buy cheaper coffee for work now. I do spend extra for my Saturday coffee. Overall, I have cut back my spending on coffee. Coffee and burgers are something I won't give up completely unless medically necessary. 😁

My clothes are not replaced until they are worn out.

There are other things I used to pay other people to do for me (car repairs, house repairs, etc..) that I'm learning to do myself. There is a youtube video for almost everything.

As an aside, things continue to go up almost daily. I find myself living within a tighter budget every month. It seems like for every cut I make, something comes along to consume the savings plus some. I wish there was an answer to that.
We ought to be able to live a little now and then. Everything seems designed to keep us spending and not saving.