My own opinion is that lust is inherently selfish. It is like a hunger, whereupon you feast from another's plate and it is justified because they have consented to your doing so. Lust in its most extreme and perverse incarnation does not care for consent. Unlike eating food, sex is not a necessity, yet the impulse to have sex might appear just as strong. I hope my analogy makes sense. I'd be interested in hearing your opinions.
I will stress I am not referring to the sexual act but moreso the sexual impulse.
I will stress I am not referring to the sexual act but moreso the sexual impulse.