What are you looking for?

[enril]

As I mentioned before, I am not really into the number thing either.

Your question to the OP made me think of something that I would now like to point out...

With specific regard to being a marriage prospect:

If I was going to assign a number to a woman that represented her attractiveness on a scale - it would be based on what she looked like with no makeup on. Why? Because, that would be the only way that it could/would properly represent her.

Otherwise, I would just be assigning a number to an image.

A woman with makeup on --- that is not her --- it is only an image - like those two images I was comparing earlier.

When it comes to her being a marriage prospect - I am really only interested in what she looks like - not her makeup.

When it comes to up-close-and-personal - I want to find her attractive 'in the natural' - makeup is a major turnoff.

So - what does a '10' look like?

A '10' is a woman I find attractive 'in the natural' - no makeup whatsoever - just her nice, soft, clean, natural skin.

and just watch, after a. couple of hours of dancing makeup lokks really bd...

my definition of beautiful has more to to with modesty (of course, my standards are a bit victorian lol)

but at the moment, i plan to be a single missionary like paul, certainly not looking for a relationship. but if one waere to meet me who has the same desires as me(missions) i would, or more correctly, we would think about it.

most girls that i see are beautiful, but not for me. aand personally i love girls who dolnt look like a celebrity.... aka……fake.

 

[Josepus86]

Bro…you don’t even have hair. And your eyes look like they are looking in different directions. But you won’t settle for low hanging fruit…not sure what fruit would wanna be picked by you.

I can only see two faults which would place me at an eight, unless you give more deduction points for either of those qualities.

But seriously, I think I wear my skin well, (+1) for playing the hand I was dealt.
Bald (-1), Lazy eye (-1), yellow teeth (-1), smoker (-1), pudgy (-1),
I am going to give myself a half point for being so polite I am mistaken as Canadian.

I think once I improve my dental hygiene and quit smoking and lose the pudgy weight and get muscular.
I should be up at an eight. Some men like Jason Statham and Bruce Willis would look weird with hair.

 

[Josepus86]

I can only see two faults which would place me at an eight, unless you give more deduction points for either of those qualities.

But seriously, I think I wear my skin well, (+1) for playing the hand I was dealt.
Bald (-1), Lazy eye (-1), yellow teeth (-1), smoker (-1), pudgy (-1),
I am going to give myself a half point for being so polite I am mistaken as Canadian.

I think once I improve my dental hygiene and quit smoking and lose the pudgy weight and get muscular.
I should be up at an eight. Some men like Jason Statham and Bruce Willis would look weird with hair.

-1 for double chin

 

[seoulsearch]

I think once I improve my dental hygiene and quit smoking and lose the pudgy weight and get muscular. I should be up at an eight. Some men like Jason Statham and Bruce Willis would look weird with hair.

I give you points for being willing to take on any feedback without flinching.


But I'm guessing you don't remember a time when Jason Statham and Bruce Willis had hair (do you remember a... "little-known" [joke] movie called "Die Hard"?)

Some men do look good bald, but (this is just my own meaningless opinion,) I liked both of these guys better with hair.

The only reason I'm bothering with all this is because I find it interesting that it seems you're putting yourself on a level with these two men...

 

[Snackersmom]

I think I wear my skin well, (+1) for playing the hand I was dealt.
Bald (-1), Lazy eye (-1), yellow teeth (-1), smoker (-1), pudgy (-1),
I am going to give myself a half point for being so polite I am mistaken as Canadian.

If you were to meet a woman who is a pudgy smoker with a lazy eye, yellow teeth and double chin (we'll replace "bald" with "greying hair") ...... would you still rate her as a "6.5, potential 8" ? 🤔

 

[Snackersmom]

I'm guessing you don't remember a time when Jason Statham and Bruce Willis had hair (do you remember a... "little-known" [joke] movie called "Die Hard"?)

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Some men do look good bald, but (this is just my own meaningless opinion,) I liked both of these guys better with hair.

The only reason I'm bothering with all this is because I find it interesting that it seems you're putting yourself on a level with these two men...

I actually think Wiilis and Statham both look better bald 😂😂😂.

Things like baldness (which a guy cannot help or change) don't bother me. But smoking, poor hygiene and being overweight are all things we have control over.

Really, even just being a smoker is going to seriously limit a person's prospects, as it is one of the top deal-killers that serious Christians tend to mention. 🤓

 

[Elizabeth35]

I can only see two faults which would place me at an eight, unless you give more deduction points for either of those qualities.

But seriously, I think I wear my skin well, (+1) for playing the hand I was dealt.
Bald (-1), Lazy eye (-1), yellow teeth (-1), smoker (-1), pudgy (-1),
I am going to give myself a half point for being so polite I am mistaken as Canadian.

I think once I improve my dental hygiene and quit smoking and lose the pudgy weight and get muscular.
I should be up at an eight. Some men like Jason Statham and Bruce Willis would look weird with hair.

People have tried to be so gentle and lighthearted with their answers so as not to hurt you. Are you not getting it?
You just listed a whole lot of faults, yet you think you are a 6.5 and can work your way up to an 8? Then do it. What are you waiting for? Fix it, take action and do something about your flaws instead of just telling everyone you can be an 8. Go to the gym, get some Crest white strips, quit smoking, and improve yourself instead of making excuses.

As for being so polite you get mistaken for being Canadian. Well, I can tell you as a born and raised Canadian that we don't consider calling innocent people low hanging fruit or handicapped spots "polite".

 

[Elizabeth35]

-1 for double chin

According to Google AI overview this describes an 8:

On a 1-10 attractiveness scale, an 8 typically signifies an "incredibly attractive" individual, often described as someone who is "above average" and could be the subject of fantasies. This rating suggests a high level of physical appeal, often described as "Hollywood-level attractive".

• General Appearance:
  An 8 is generally considered to have a very pleasing and desirable appearance. This might include symmetrical facial features, a well-maintained physique, and a generally attractive style.
• Social Perception:
  People who rate an 8 on this scale are often noticed and approached, and may receive compliments or positive attention.
• Comparison to Others:
  An 8 is noticeably above the average, meaning that most people would find them to be more attractive than average.
  
  Also according to Google:

• 1-4:
  Generally considered below average or unattractive. Features may be asymmetrical, or there might be noticeable flaws or lack of effort in appearance.
  
  
• 5:
  Average. This is the middle point, representing the typical level of attractiveness seen in everyday life.
  
  
• 6-7:
  Above average. A 6.5 would fall into this range, indicating a level of attractiveness that is noticeable and potentially appealing, but not exceptionally so.
  
  
• 8-10:
  Considered attractive to very attractive. These individuals would likely have striking features and a high level of aesthetic appeal.

People have tried to be kind but it seems you're missing the truth here and need a blunt answer. You are not a 6.5 and you cannot work your way up to an 8. I truly do not want to hurt your feelings, looks are superficial and people are valuable whether they are a "1" or a "10" because we are made in God's image and God has a purpose and plan for each of us. As the bible says, man looks at the outer appearance but God looks at the heart.

I encourage you to take care of yourself and be the best version of you. Stop obsessing over a dream girl and whatever number she might be. Focus on your health and spiritual walk, become the man God has designed you to be, this is the most important thing you can do.

 

[Jackson129]

AI has me at about a 6 maybe 6.5 if I cut this puff ball off the top of my head

 

[CarriePie]

I think I prefer being cool than anywhere on a 1-10 scale

Like Elizabeth says, focus on health and spiritual walk.
Focusing on our walk with Christ is paramount to anything else.
Focusing on health honors the temple He blessed us with (no matter how attractive or unattractive we are to others - health is more than about being attractive).

 

[Mem]

I can only see two faults which would place me at an eight, unless you give more deduction points for either of those qualities.

But seriously, I think I wear my skin well, (+1) for playing the hand I was dealt.
Bald (-1), Lazy eye (-1), yellow teeth (-1), smoker (-1), pudgy (-1),
I am going to give myself a half point for being so polite I am mistaken as Canadian.

I think once I improve my dental hygiene and quit smoking and lose the pudgy weight and get muscular.
I should be up at an eight. Some men like Jason Statham and Bruce Willis would look weird with hair.

Ok. Get to work.

 

[Mem]

AI has been at about a 6 maybe 6.5 if I cut this puff ball off the top of my head

What? Where?

 

[Jackson129]

I dont focus on my looks. I yam what I yam. Heck I haven't combed my hair in 2 weeks lol

 

[CarriePie]

I dont focus on my looks. I yam what I yam. Heck I haven't combed my hair in 2 weeks lol

Too bad that's not beard hair you're talking about

 

[Jackson129]

If it requires maintenance get it off my body. I aint got time for that stuff haha

 

[CarriePie]

If it requires maintenance get it off my body. I aint got time for that stuff haha

I know...it takes away from your time to rid the planet of chuckers!

 

[seoulsearch]

Ok. Get to work.

Oooohhh @Mem I LOVE your signature under your posts!!

(For anyone who can't see it, it says: "Insert image. But what if I am the image of God?")

 

[Edith]

I am thinking that @Jackson129 has not made any indication of this (not in this thread, anyway). Where did you get this idea? Did I miss something? Or, do you simply assume that every man is looking for a 10 - whether he says so or not...???

(Keep in mind that I said 'is looking for' and not 'would like to find'.)

Dear Gary I think most women including me think that of men. that is why we make up to look like a ten for us and for men.

 

[Jackson129]

Dear Gary I think most women including me think that of men. that is why we make up to look like a ten for us and for men.

If Ana Kendrick or Kate Bekinsail fell out of the sky and hit me in the head I wouldn't complain. But I live in reality so I know that will never happen lol. I see lots of pretty women running around in the real world. They arnt exactly some undiscovered creature. Personality is what is rare.

 

[Lynx]

Hooray!!! Another Northerner!!

For some reason, I've always been fascinated by the Southern USA, but grew up in the North...

As part of God's sense of humor, He surrounded me with the vast majority of my friends here being from the South. I get called a Yankee on a regular basis, though pretty much only by a certain regionally-biased cat... Cough, cough. @Lynx

It's nice to know there's some good old-fashioned Yankee backup 'round these parts!!!

Let's all crack open a bottle or can of POP and celebrate!

I only call you that when you try to pronounce pecans or start rhapsodizing about sweet cornbread.

So yeah, only when provoked, like any feline.