What do women want?

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zeroturbulence said:
Let's try this the other way around just for giggles.... ;)

All women want to be spoiled with money and expensive jewelry,
not with attention, effort and constant reassurance.

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Hmmm... interesting... :rolleyes:
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If I want money or material things, I have a 4-letter word for that: W.O.R.K.

I've worked since I was 11 years old.

What do women want?

RESPECT, and a man they can respect in return.

At least, this goes for the women who don't meet the typical annoying, overly repeated stereotypes. :rolleyes:

Finding a man who doesn't "buy into" (pardon the pun) these stereotypes would also be an added bonus. :cool:
 
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seoulsearch said:
If I want money or material things, I have a 4-letter word for that: W.O.R.K.

I've worked since I was 11 years old.

What do women want?

RESPECT, and a man they can respect in return.

At least, this goes for the women who don't meet the typical annoying, overly repeated stereotypes. :rolleyes:

Finding a man who doesn't "buy into" (pardon the pun) these stereotypes would also be an added bonus. :cool:
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Ok..im gonna play devil's advocate here for a moment (To all the women reading this, not just you Kim)... :rolleyes:

What if you were married to a wonderful man and he said to you, "Honey I must tell you that last year for your birthday I was going to buy you that new car you've been hinting about for some time, but I knew you would rather just have more attention, effort and reassurances from me. Hope you enjoyed it." ...would you wish he bought you the car? :rolleyes:
 
zeroturbulence said:
Ok..im gonna play devil's advocate here for a moment (To all the women reading this, not just you Kim)... :rolleyes:

What if you were married to a wonderful man and he said to you, "Honey I must tell you that last year for your birthday I was going to buy you that new car you've been hinting about for some time, but I knew you would rather just have more attention, effort and reassurances from me. Hope you enjoyed it." ...would you wish he bought you the car? :rolleyes:
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Zero, Sweetheart,

I've been buying my own cars since I was 15 years old. Granted, I take my dad with me so the salesmen can't talk down to me. Does that count? So the salesmen wind up talking to my dad the whole time... But I'm the one who signs the dotted line and pays the bill.

The car I have now is perfectly fine, and will be, for hopefully, a very long time.

"Ever dance with the devil in the pale moonlight?"

Why, yes, quite often, it seems. :D

If I was with someone who had that kind of money for us, I'd want to either use it on trips to spend time with him and/or save the rest for our future.

This might just be me, but it can be a lot easier to earn money for yourself than to find a sincere heart.
 
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seoulsearch said:
Zero, Sweetheart,

I've been buying my own cars since I was 15 years old. Granted, I take my dad with me so the salesmen can't talk down to me. Does that count? So the salesmen wind up talking to my dad the whole time... But I'm the one who signs the dotted line and pays the bill.

The car I have now is perfectly fine, and will be, for hopefully, a very long time.

"Ever dance with the devil in the pale moonlight?"

Why, yes, quite often, it seems. :D

If I was with someone who had that kind of money for us, I'd want to either use it on trips to spend time with him and/or save the rest for our future.

This might just be me, but it can be a lot easier to earn money for yourself than to find a sincere heart.
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Thanks for answering Kim. So that's basically a 'no' - you do not wish he bought the car. :rolleyes:

I've paid for all my own cars too (except the one my dad gave me before he passed), but I personally would jump at the chance of getting a free one. :rolleyes: So to my future spouse I say, "Go ahead and spoil me darlin!! Spoil the snot out of me!!!" :D (as long as we can afford it of course)
 
zeroturbulence said:
Thanks for answering Kim. So that's basically a 'no' - you do not wish he bought the car. :rolleyes:

I've paid for all my own cars too (except the one my dad gave me before he passed), but I personally would jump at the chance of getting a free one. :rolleyes: So to my future spouse I say, "Go ahead and spoil me darlin!! Spoil the snot out of me!!!" :D (as long as we can afford it of course)
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If I found the right person and could afford it, I would buy him a car. Granted, I hope he's happy with something along the lines of a Cruze rather than a Corvette.

That reminds me of one winter when my parents had bought a vehicle, but it arrived early, so my Dad surprised my Mom by having it ready for Christmas.

Christmas morning it was blizzarding like crazy, wind and snow flying everywhere... and he told my Mom to go look out the window. We all ran to the window and saw the the vehicle Dad had picked up for Mom...

He had put a big red bow on the front of it that was flying around in the wind and just kind of hanging by a thread, but it was beautiful. :)
 
seoulsearch said:
If I found the right person and could afford it, I would buy him a car. Granted, I hope he's happy with something along the lines of a Cruze rather than a Corvette.

That reminds me of one winter when my parents had bought a vehicle, but it arrived early, so my Dad surprised my Mom by having it ready for Christmas.

Christmas morning it was blizzarding like crazy, wind and snow flying everywhere... and he told my Mom to go look out the window. We all ran to the window and saw the the vehicle Dad had picked up for Mom...

He had put a big red bow on the front of it that was flying around in the wind and just kind of hanging by a thread, but it was beautiful. :)
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That's awesome! And that's one of my dreams... to give my future wife a new car with a big red bow on it! :D
 
Agricola said:
Yes women, you should know you limits, just stick to kittens.
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I have a fifty pound German Shepard pup,does that count?
 
renewed_hope said:
Here's the thing that will save you so much time. The reason why men can't figure women out and why there are so many books on it, is that women don't even know themselves....we change our mind too much it's hard to grasp a true concept about us :p
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I found a book to read. :p

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Just so you guys know.... My post was in response to this meme...

(I didn't just come up with that statement all on my ownz!!...) :rolleyes:


mailmandan said:
Is this true ladies? :p

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renewed_hope said:
That sounds like a cute combination.

I'm wearing skinny jeans with a low heel shoe and a cardigan sweater....I love it and got several compliments on my outfit
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Now when its warmer i usually go for leggings, tank top and some sort of cartigan or so. When sitting in school all day when i wear skinny jeans i often get some issues with zhe blood flow in my legs
 
I DONT want guys or anyone to wear sandals and socks. Jesus wore sandals without socks. Please ppl that do that...staaaawp it looks weiird
 
zeroturbulence said:
Ok..im gonna play devil's advocate here for a moment (To all the women reading this, not just you Kim)... :rolleyes:

What if you were married to a wonderful man and he said to you, "Honey I must tell you that last year for your birthday I was going to buy you that new car you've been hinting about for some time, but I knew you would rather just have more attention, effort and reassurances from me. Hope you enjoyed it." ...would you wish he bought you the car? :rolleyes:
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I will tell him "honey ,I joke sometimes " :D :D :D :D and my birthday is near just to let you know :D
 
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It's Friday. I want to go home. I want to take a nap, watch Agatha Christie on TV, have a steak and if I feel like it, a glass of red wine, and go to bed.

Ask me again tomorrow....
 
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