What Do YOU Have to Offer a Potential Date/Spouse? (CORRECTED)

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I Have the Following Things to Offer Someone (check all that apply):

  • I bet I can make you smile and laugh!

    Votes: 20 87.0%
  • I'm a good cook.

    Votes: 15 65.2%
  • I'm responsible and dependable.

    Votes: 16 69.6%
  • I remember the change the cat litter before it's too late.

    Votes: 9 39.1%
  • I'd offer to take out the dog and clean up the yard.

    Votes: 10 43.5%
  • I'd clean the fish tank/gerbil cage/iguana pen.

    Votes: 6 26.1%
  • I'm great at cleaning and housework.

    Votes: 9 39.1%
  • My family would consider you to be part of our family as you are.

    Votes: 18 78.3%
  • I don't know what a vaccuum is, but I can fix cars.

    Votes: 3 13.0%
  • I hate doing laundry, but I'd gladly do the yardwork.

    Votes: 3 13.0%
  • I can hold a steady job, and if need be, juggle multiple jobs--I'm a hard worker.

    Votes: 16 69.6%
  • I'm a good studen and can apply what I learn--I grow and adapt to new situations well.

    Votes: 12 52.2%
  • I'm killer on the grill!! (Sometimes I even kill what I grill...)

    Votes: 9 39.1%
  • I can fix cars, computers, electronics, etc.

    Votes: 8 34.8%
  • I'm responsible with money.

    Votes: 15 65.2%
  • I'm organized and scheduled.

    Votes: 8 34.8%
  • What's a schedule? But, I can bring spontaneity into the relationship.

    Votes: 10 43.5%
  • I'm a great listener.

    Votes: 18 78.3%
  • I'm good with kids.

    Votes: 13 56.5%
  • I give someone my full attention when I'm with them.

    Votes: 13 56.5%
  • I am very dedicated to family and friends.

    Votes: 17 73.9%
  • I can pray/fast with you and for you.

    Votes: 17 73.9%
  • I may not have all the answers, but I have others I can ask.

    Votes: 13 56.5%
  • I am a natural leader.

    Votes: 10 43.5%
  • I like being a good support person.

    Votes: 18 78.3%
  • I know how to create comforting atmospheres/environments.

    Votes: 14 60.9%
  • I am faithful in my Bible studies and church work.

    Votes: 10 43.5%
  • I give to others, and I would make you my highest priority under God.

    Votes: 16 69.6%
  • I will do my best to be there when you need me.

    Votes: 16 69.6%
  • I'm not afraid to stand up to you respectfully if I don't agree with you.

    Votes: 16 69.6%
  • I keep myself in shape and would love to keep each other motivated.

    Votes: 10 43.5%
  • I'm good at decorating things.

    Votes: 9 39.1%
  • I put my laundry away (and if it's dirty, I put it in the basket/hamper.)

    Votes: 8 34.8%
  • I would love to learn about some of your interests.

    Votes: 17 73.9%
  • I have hobbies I would love to share with you.

    Votes: 15 65.2%
  • I can respect your alone time (and need some alone time myself.)

    Votes: 19 82.6%
  • I am willing to make myself vulnerable to you and trust you.

    Votes: 16 69.6%
  • I will rely on God to teach me things about you I can understand on my own.

    Votes: 16 69.6%
  • I will love you for who you are, both good and bad.

    Votes: 19 82.6%
  • Other--please share with us in your post!

    Votes: 4 17.4%

  • Total voters
    23
Other:

I will always love you and cherish you and thank God for you.

I will always try to see things your way

I will always do my best to take care of you

I will make sure you feel appreciated and not neglected

I will forgive you when you make mistakes

I will always know that you chose me and for that I am forever grateful

Wow, Zero... I wasn't even sure those qualities existed anymore... I'm going to have to take a better look at my own heart because these are areas I think I need to personally work on...

And Robert--it all depends on WHAT kind of cereal you can fix in a bow... of course... :) (Fruity Pebbles!! Mmm.)
 
Wow, Zero... I wasn't even sure those qualities existed anymore... I'm going to have to take a better look at my own heart because these are areas I think I need to personally work on...

And Robert--it all depends on WHAT kind of cereal you can fix in a bow... of course... :) (Fruity Pebbles!! Mmm.)

Yea I don't think those are around much anymore either, and just to be clear, those weren't suggestions. Thats what I have to offer the woman who accepts my heart (if she ever comes along).

Oh and we should never underestimate the power that a good bowl of cereal has over a woman! ;)
 
Other:

I will always love you and cherish you and thank God for you.

I will always try to see things your way

I will always do my best to take care of you

I will make sure you feel appreciated and not neglected

I will forgive you when you make mistakes

I will always know that you chose me and for that I am forever grateful

That's beautiful, zero.
 
Wow, Zero... I wasn't even sure those qualities existed anymore... I'm going to have to take a better look at my own heart because these are areas I think I need to personally work on...

And Robert--it all depends on WHAT kind of cereal you can fix in a bow... of course... :) (Fruity Pebbles!! Mmm.)

Oh definitely. Fruity Pebbles is an excellent choice.

Cap'n Crunch on the other hand....yikes! Your dentist would not be happy with me.
 
Awesome baking skills. I'll always burn your brownies. Stubbornness. and grumpiness. Bad morning breath. In all seriousness, I am always willing to listen. I will compromise. I'll give time and space to do your things and be yourself. I'll be your friend in God. I'll make sure to heed your advice. I'll go on adventures with you. I'll be your companion in getting to know God and his wishes. I'll always be there to guide you if you go astray. I'll never judge unless you need righteous judgment. I'll praise you and be thankful for you each and every day.
 
I have the uncanny ability to look as though im listning to someone while there talking, while really im off in la la land thinking about what color shoes would go with the outfit i wanna wear the next day.
 
I have a toy tractor collection, about 1000 pieces, and own as of right now 9 tractors and 4 FORD pick ups!!! No doesnt that make the babes a bit wobbly kneed!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
OTHER: - If I meet someone I feel I'd like as a potential date or future spouse I'll let her know then.
 
Me? Have to offer? Umm... I uhh... have a pretty extensive knowledge of Christian metal... err... no, that won't help... i uhh... i'm friends with a glittery vampire named Zaoman of the Edward Clan... no, wait, that's more of a deterrent... i umm... i tore the sk... uhh, no, that was someone else... hmm. That was all i could think of.
 
Good Lord man...use me as a referance for a potential spouse & you will surely have your beacon of light dimmed.LOL
 
Good Lord man...use me as a referance for a potential spouse & you will surely have your beacon of light dimmed.LOL

hahahaha...I may be a beacon of light, notice it didn't say 'brightly shining'. Maybe more like a votive candle under a spaghetti strainer, haha.
 
I can offer cookies... maybe brownies too, but definitely cookies.