You must also realize what love is. It is first and for most undefinable. Keeping the commandments is love, but what does this mean?
Jesus said to love one another as He loved us, as His Father does by sending the sun to shine on the good and the bad. Thou shalt not's are not commandments written in the heart, but an added commandment because the law (love) was transgressed. You can only kill out of hate, which is defined by our world and what we see.
The law, or all those "thou shalt not's" is for the lawless or those that without them, would do them more. Or because of it, they exploit or take advantage of those who cannot for whatever reason live up to as mush of it as them. Mischief is truly framed on the law.
'Thou shalt not' defines Love. Love does not kill. Love does not steal. Love does no harm.
'Thou shalt not' defines God's essence: Love. Love for God will cause one not to have another god or use His name in vain.
But, do I say, we follow the written Law? Nay! Do I say we follow God's Law, which was Love all along, with the mind? Yes.
How many times have I said this? How many times have I said that the Lord's command is Love?
Yet, people only see me pointing to the written Law and not to the Law written upon our hearts and minds, the Law which fulfills God's will: Love.
By love, we fulfill those 'thou shalt nots' not by the flesh, but by our spirit. And this is the reason we are told to die to the flesh so that we can become alive to our spirit, seeing that the spirit tends to the things of the Spirit. And those things of the Spirit is fulfilling God's Will, just as our Lord did and requires of us through Love by the spirit, and not through Law by the flesh.
You say that God's Law is for the lawless ones. Why then did He write it upon our hearts?
Not one will say that Jesus was lawless, but by fulfilling the Law, He was found righteous before God.
He who knew no sin....What is sin? Does it not say that sin is the transgression of the Law? He loved (went not against God's will), even to death.
the Law is God's definition of what Love is. Love will not offend (sin). Love will cause no harm (evil).
If love will not sin or do evil, then really, is not that fulfilling the Law which God spoke?
So then, does not Romans 7 tells us to die to the Law as our husband and become married to Another so that we can SERVE God's Law.......through love?