The number one thing that keeps me from getting married is the idea of settling down with someone. Like meeting a woman who goes into child-deployment mode. I don't want to be stuck with a woman who wants to throw out the anchor and push out babies.
I want to travel with someone for like a year. I want to go on missions trips. I want to live like a married missionary version of James Bond.
My second reason for not getting married is that I haven't developed the habits that a good strong Christian should have before he cements himself to another person.
My Third reason, is a fleeting one but, I'm a pretty poor dude. I know that is going to change but at the same time it is kind of a dating deterrent. Not that when I date I even really date in the first place.