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Where are all the single christian men?!
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Probably because due to the end world being imminent many men now understand the wisdom in Gods advice.
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GraceRevelation
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Because the mainstream people have been able to influence the church, many people in the church are involved in pornography (especially men). There is a shift happening within the church though, in our generation especially there's the grace message that is being poured out into the church which is causing a change in the hearts and minds of christians everywhere. Religion isn't drawing people anymore or saving people from their problems they are having in their lives. The message of Grace and having a personal relationship with Jesus is setting people on FIRE for the Lord. In saying all of this, people are being set free of these addictions that prevent them from being good christian men and women of God. This will help the the christian dating pool for sure lol, always though, press into God and give Him your desires to provide you with a good husband. Are you a good christian woman? Many people are wanting to date someone that they themselves aren't prepared for, God is preparing us for many things as well as being a good mate for a future husband or wife. Many of us just want things without being prepared for them, whatever the case may be trust in the Lord for your furture and enjoy your time of singleness.
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joefizz
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The single christian men I would imagine gather in crowds of 1 or maybe 1 or even 1 I can't think of a single reason that they wouldn't unless they aren't single, they may even sing Akon's I'm so lonely song to attract attention from single women lol you never know or they might be down to earth mature men who go to church,work,pay bills,and aren't girl crazy,just have this on your heart and do right for God and you'll find"HIM" whom you seek!
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NoNameMcgee
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thats the thing
cause we are happy being single...
its not going to be an easy find
i dont know any other men who follow Jesus and are single in real life
i know my older brother who is going to be married and reads the bible
four other men who proclaim to be christian but two are divorced and catholic
one has a girlfriend he needs to learn more about her before he marries
and my little brother who just recently found out the truth of Jesus and may have his wife to be already
now i love Jesus
and ive been single for almost 10 years
but in real life i dont go around saying "im single and christian"
i just read my bible / pray
work
eat
shower
sleep
repeat
and my fellowship is done online
(i also know plenty of married supposedly christian men most being catholic)
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I didn't know at first but eventually we fell in love. It was really quite unexpected and was a pleasant surprise.
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Seriously,as men we ARE very dense about mundane everyday life but we seem to have a acute sense for self preservation.
For some reason most women dont see the end coming or dont care.
I asked some single chicks if they believe what the Bible says now that everything that it predicted is coming true so everything else that it says must be true also.
Like fornication is a sin and you may go to hell for it,they says "we dont care we are just going to have as much fun as we can".
Whereas ive seen many single dudes that use to pick up chicks at clubs have stopped because its not worth the risk of going to hell.
Thats how i feel about,i love women and sex probably more than the next guy but it aint worth eternal damnation.
For some reason most women dont see the end coming or dont care.
I asked some single chicks if they believe what the Bible says now that everything that it predicted is coming true so everything else that it says must be true also.
Like fornication is a sin and you may go to hell for it,they says "we dont care we are just going to have as much fun as we can".
Whereas ive seen many single dudes that use to pick up chicks at clubs have stopped because its not worth the risk of going to hell.
Thats how i feel about,i love women and sex probably more than the next guy but it aint worth eternal damnation.
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joefizz
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actually I wouldn't say I'm exactly happy being single,it's more of like I'm on standby til I find the right woman,you may be happy with being single but I keep praying to meet my other half someday whom ever or where ever "She" is along my path in life!
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NoNameMcgee
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im sorry
i didnt mean to speak for all single christian men
may it be in Gods will your hearts desires are met
and you get a great wife thats a blessing and you cherish
and both of you follow Jesus together until death do you part
Seriously,as men we ARE very dense about mundane everyday life We are dense.
As for the whole dating thing(which is a more significant event!)...women can be interested and we won't have a clue.
Yet, there they are...waiting for us to make the first move*.
The result: it's all over before it even starts.
*-Making the first move and pursuing are not the same to me.
Probably married or lost perhaps lol jk God bless you I know the struggle is real. But good things don't come easy. And if they do question it.
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joefizz
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indeed you did but,answer one question why are they so strange and messy and superstitious?Found them...
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Infusion
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I only had time to read a few of the posts but I had to say that in my opinion, Christians have become too soft and reliant on the Lord to do everything for them when the Lord cant do anything for them unless they take a step themselves. I think relying on the Lord does not mean to not go out and meet people because then you are just making it harder on the Lord. I think you have to even try to date so you learn how because in reality competition is fierce when you are single in your 30s and you have to look at yourself and ask yourself what you really have to offer somebody.
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I wanted to add that the Lord should not have to do anything for a grown man unless its a miracle. You have to get up and be a man and take you a woman and not blame the Lord for not doing it for you. Thats my opinion on most of the posts here.