who would you cuddle with?

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who would you could with?

  • I would only cuddle with someone i was in a committed relationship with

    Votes: 22 36.1%

  • I would cuddle with a friend of the opposite gender

    Votes: 13 21.3%

  • I would cuddle with a friend only of the same gender

    Votes: 2 3.3%

  • I am only going to cuddle with my future spouse

    Votes: 6 9.8%

  • I would cuddle with strangers

    Votes: 3 4.9%

  • I would cuddle with someone i was interested in romantically, even if i wasn't committed to them

    Votes: 5 8.2%

  • Ii would cuddle with you, truthie

    Votes: 2 3.3%

  • I want to cuddle with Jesus

    Votes: 8 13.1%
  • Total voters
    61
i cuddled someone last week. someone i would never date. i was just too lonely to not. i do wonder what he's thinkign tho and if he really could tolerate a cuddle friendship without wanting more. he asked why i dont have a bf. so i think part of him wants to be my bf. i prolly shouldnt abuse that. huh.
 
ijustwanttheTruth said:
i cuddled someone last week. someone i would never date. i was just too lonely to not. i do wonder what he's thinkign tho and if he really could tolerate a cuddle friendship without wanting more. he asked why i dont have a bf. so i think part of him wants to be my bf. i prolly shouldnt abuse that. huh.
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Well duh? lolz
 
ijustwanttheTruth said:
well. i've already told this guy in no uncertain terms i'm not interested. otherwise i would have guilt.
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Oh...'cause I thought you were saying that you prob. shouldn't abuse the fact that you think he wants to be yer' BF,so I would think that asking him to cuddle you,might be like torture for him even if you've told him already,"look,I just want to cuddle,this isn't gonna make me wanna date you." Well,I guess he's the foolish one then if he gives you cuddle time & still has those feelings even though he knows yer' not interested. Personally,I would charge you extra for cuddle time,just based on yer' attitude. LOL
 
I'm gonna go with iTore on this, I think it's a bit manipulative to be using this guy for cuddles when you know that you want nothing more but you think he might. I don't know, just thinking about if I was in the situation but the tables were turned (I was being cuddled because the guy was lonely but didn't really like me in that way), I'd feel used.

I guess if he's fine with it then it's whatever, but just the fact that you are wondering about it probably isn't a good sign.
 
Chrissy77 said:
That's the nickname I'm giving whomever I give my heart to.

"I need my teddy bear."

Then he will always know I'm talking about him.

( that sounds so cheesy but oh well,)
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And all the rest of the times when ur not cuddling you shall address him as 'Master'

(it aint easy being cheesy, but oh well)
 
MidniteWelder said:
Chrissy77 said:
That's the nickname I'm giving whomever I give my heart to.
"I need my teddy bear." Then he will always know I'm talking about him.
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And all the rest of the times when ur not cuddling you shall address him as 'Master'
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ROFL! Well, sounds like you've been watching some "I Dream of Jeanie" reruns. ...if you're going to called him "master," why not go for the whole obedience and call him "lord" as Sarah did for her Abraham? :D
 
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BananaPie said:
ROFL! Well, if you're gonna called him "master," why not go for the whole obedience and call him "lord" as Sarah did for her Abraham? :D
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Oh goodness! Now we are getting real deep! Lol
I don't want him to think he has complete control.
 
Control? ...even a pirate wouldn't want to control those high and mighty salty seas, but a good lord knows how to govern your peachy sweet heart, right?
 
Chrissy77 said:
That's the nickname I'm giving whomever I give my heart to.

"I need my teddy bear."

Then he will always know I'm talking about him.

( that sounds so cheesy but oh well,)
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I could never say, "I need my Teddy Bear" (referring to a guy) with a straight face. :) I'm so ungirlie I guess. :)

But I can't bring myself to say "yummy" either and I've heard a lot of guys use that word...not to mention anyone by name, Stilly :D
 
Okay, dear saints, seriously.

To the brothers, would you be annoyed if your girl addressed you in public (or in private) as lord, master, teddy bear, lovey-dovey, or mushy stuff like that?

To the sisters, would you be embarrassed to address the brother committed to you as "lord?"

Personally, I'm peachy with "pet" names in a committed relationship regardless of public/private setting as long as the name is in good taste, i.e. "BananaPie my love." LOL.

Due to the nature of my faith and upbringing, speaking (even thinking) the name "Lord" has been part of my daily life, and yes, in error, I once called a brother "lord." His name is Lloyd, and of course, the teasing never stopped. LOL.

In private, I wouldn't be embarrassed to address my husband as "my lord," but I don't believe the brethren, in general, would want to have such pet name due to the direct association with our Lord Jesus. What say you? :D
 
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All I know is, I don't cuddle unless I'm sleeping, and if my husband ever asked me to address him as "lord" or "master" I might just chuck a spatula at him...

Because spatulas have great aerodynamics.

I think my response could fit into a couple of different existing threads, and probably a handful that haven't even. been. made. yet.
(CatHerder, if you see this...ALL THE THREADS ARE MELTING TOGETHER!)
 
As for the OP, have you considered that any prolonged physical contact (more than 1 minute, for example) a sister has with a brother can trigger certain sensory that is best kept guarded outside marriage?
 
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