Why am I having so much of a problem getting a good Christian girlfriend?

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"oral sex" eewww...
stay away from that word.

ion have so much problem gettin good christian gf.
ive a good and beautiful christian girlfriend, though i am juz 6'8 in height and have really really bad breath ^^

Just keep praising and worshipping God, He'll send you his "angel" sooner or later.
 
Dude, stop pasting those lists. You don't tell these things to people, especially women. You admit these things to psychiatrists or your parents, not strangers.
 
What does mean when your walking down the hallway at school, and you pass by a girl and she smiles at you. This is a girl I've never met before.
 
Well, be careful reading too much into a smile. I smile at everyone who makes eye contact with me. It usually softens their expression, and brightens their day. It has just become a habit for me to smile at people. And, I'll bet her smile brightened your day a bit. ;)
 
dothackzero said:
What does mean when your walking down the hallway at school, and you pass by a girl and she smiles at you. This is a girl I've never met before.
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She was showing you her cordination , walking and smiling at the same time. Most likely she was trying to impress you with this.


Either that or she was smiling at the guy behind you.....
 
who knows? Maybe you're not getting out there enough to meet people? Maybe you're just not connecting with the right people? maybe its just not your time? Maybe God has other plans for you?

Its not something strangers around the world can answer for you, but i think every single person here can empathize with the frustration. :)
 
My phycologist thinks that I won't have a problem finding a girl or making friends once I get break out of the sa.(Apprently, I don't really show my social anxiety that much around my phycologist.) So that's like a good sign that I'll be able to find a girlfriend once I'm get my sa fixed right?
 
Here:

There are girls like me out there, so I'm sure you'll find this in a person:

This is me.

I am 18.
I'm a virgin.
I don't do drugs.
I don't smoke.
I'm happily religious
I'm trying my best.
I <3 anime/manga
I'm a huge nerd.
I'm more of a tomboy than a girl
I dislike shopping unless it's for video games.
I <3 video games
I accept faults and work with people to do better
I don't like people who change for me. I like people who change for God
I am happy.
I struggle, but keep standing tall.
I am thankful for the problems that have occured, because I've grown as a woman.
I never to my hair. I brush it and it looks just fine.
I've worn makeup only recently.
I love to laugh.

:D
 
Over 90% of people get married at least once, so the odds are in your favor to find a girlfriend, lol.
 
Just have patience. That's the wisest thing to do right now. Have faith in God and it'll work out in the way HE wants it too. :D
 
Neika17 said:
Here:

There are girls like me out there, so I'm sure you'll find this in a person:

This is me.

I am 18.
I'm a virgin.
I don't do drugs.
I don't smoke.
I'm happily religious
I'm trying my best.
I <3 anime/manga
I'm a huge nerd.
I'm more of a tomboy than a girl
I dislike shopping unless it's for video games.
I <3 video games
I accept faults and work with people to do better
I don't like people who change for me. I like people who change for God
I am happy.
I struggle, but keep standing tall.
I am thankful for the problems that have occured, because I've grown as a woman.
I never to my hair. I brush it and it looks just fine.
I've worn makeup only recently.
I love to laugh.

:D
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Too bad you probably don't live anywhere close to where I do.
 
D: I live in CA. :D

I'm cool like that. In the hottest place I've ever been. (I fail at traveling around...XD)
 
i don't drink
i don't smoke
im a virgen
im 4'9
im 146 pounds
i love video games
i love going to the movies
i brush my teeth
im funny.
 
I understand exactly how you feel. I don't have any of the medical problems you describe but I am shy and more of a quiet personality. I've chatted with many local girls online and in person too. No one ever seems to like me more than a friend. I'm 26 and yeah, I like video games, computer stuff, etc. I think that girls are just rarely impressed by guys like us. They mostly only go after the "bad boys". But although I say this, I will agree with everyone else here when they tell you not to give up hope. It might happen someday. I suppose hope is all we have in any case. Its the only thing that keeps me going, just believing that someday things will get better.
 
it appears this way b/c God is not ready for you to be with anyone as yet and you just have to continue praying and be soulded out. when God decides you will meet her and you will know and i truly believe this because the bible says he that finds a wife finds a good thing. Stay focused
 
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