Why are prayers unanswered?

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Jehovah God requirements regarding prayer requires that we must lead lives in harmony with our prayers. Our course of action must please Him; otherwise, we cannot expect Him to consider our petitions and supplications with favor.

This is an aspect of prayer that is overlooked by most of those in Christendom, even as it was overlooked by the apostate Israelites in Isaiah’s day. That is why Jehovah had his prophet represent Him. See Isaiah 1:15-17. If those Israelites wanted God’s favor, they had to act in a way that pleased him. As has well been said: “If you would have God hear you when you pray, you must hear Him when He speaks.”

[SUP] In fact, Jehovah God repeatedly found it necessary to remind his people Israel of these truths. Read Proverbs 28:9; 15:29. Because of this situation, Jeremiah mourned: “You [Jehovah] have blocked approach to yourself with a cloud mass, that prayer may not pass through.” (Lamentations 3:44) Truly, the warning that Micah was inspired to give was fulfilled: “They will call to Jehovah for aid, but he will not answer them. And he will conceal his face from them in that time, according as they committed badness in their dealings.”-Micah 3:4; Proverbs 1:28-32. Consider Genesis 27:41; chapters 32, 33; 2 Samuel 15:31-37; 17:1-14; 18:6-8; Nehemiah 4:9, 16.

[/SUP]For our prayers to be heard by Jehovah God, not only must we be morally and spiritually clean but we must also prove the sincerity of our prayers by working at what we pray for. Prayer alone is not a substitute for honest, intelligent effort. Jehovah will not do for us what we can do for ourselves by earnestly applying the counsel of his Word and following the guidance of his holy spirit. We should be willing to do all we can in this regard so that he will have a basis for answering our prayers. Thus, we ‘should not be asking for more than we are willing to work for,’ as someone has well put it.

Some may be asked: “Why pray if we have to work at what we pray for?” We should pray for at least two good reasons. First, by our prayers we acknowledge that all good things come from God. He is the Giver of every good and perfect present. (Matthew 5:45; Acts 14:16, 17; James 1:17) Second, whether our efforts are successful or not depends upon Jehovah’s blessing. Read at Psalm 127:1. Making the same point are these words of the apostle Paul at 1 Corinthians 3:6, 7.

Jesus also counseled us to ask his heavenly Father for His holy spirit. As Jesus assures us, God is more willing to give us the holy spirit than earthly parents are to give good things to their children. (Luke 11:13) But we cannot expect Jehovah God to impart his holy spirit to us miraculously, without any effort on our part. We must do everything we can to receive holy spirit. In addition to praying for it, we need to feed diligently on God’s Word. Jehovah God does not give his holy spirit apart from his Word, and we cannot hope to receive holy spirit if we ignore the earthly channel Jehovah is using today, “the faithful and discreet slave.”-Matthew 24:45-47.

In the final analysis, it is knowledge of God’s will that governs the contents of a person’s prayers, for the supplicant must realize that, if his request is to be granted, it must please God. Knowing that the wicked and those disregarding God’s Word have no favor with Him, the supplicant obviously cannot request that which runs counter to righteousness and to God’s revealed will, including the teachings of God’s Son and his inspired disciples. (John 15:7, 16) Thus, statements regarding the asking of “anything” (John 16:23) are not to be taken out of context. “Anything” clearly does not embrace things the individual knows, or has reason to believe, are not pleasing to God. See 1John 5:14; compare James 4:15.

Acceptable prayer must be made to the right person, Jehovah God; on right matters, those in harmony with God’s declared purposes; in the right manner, through God’s appointed way, Christ Jesus; and with a right motive and a clean heart. (Compare James 4:3-6.) Along with all of this, there is need for persistence. Jesus said to “keep on asking, seeking, and knocking,“ not giving up. (Luke 11:5-10; 18:1-7) The seeming delay on God’s part in answering some prayers is not due to any inability nor to a lack of willingness, as the Scriptures make clear. (Matthew 7:9-11; James 1:5, 17) In some cases the answer must await God’s “timetable.” (Luke 18:7; 1 Peter 5:6; 2 Peter 3:9; Revelation 6:9-11) Primarily, however, it is evident that God allows his petitioners to demonstrate the depth of their concern, the intensity of their desire, the genuineness of their motive. (Psalms 55:17; 88:1, 13; Romans 1:9-11) At times they must be like Jacob in his wrestling a long time in order to obtain a blessing.-Genesis 32:24-26.
 
 
 
 
Psamls 66 We must learn to forgive that is the key in my book

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Come and hear, all ye that fear God, and I will declare what he hath done for my soul.

17 I cried unto him with my mouth, and he was extolled with my tongue.
18 If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me:
19 But verily God hath heard me; he hath attended to the voice of my prayer.
20 Blessed be God, which hath not turned away my prayer, nor his mercy from me
 
Maybe just pray always and so it sure is not with our heads bowed and our arms folded together with hands since we are told to
1 Thessalonians 5:17 Pray without ceasing.

And what is one's motive is key to prayer as to whether one gets what one seeks
 
What is the bottom line that everyone is seeking?

Is it not life forever, so then ask God for this, and trust God for all needs here and now to be supplied, that is not saying to sit and do nothing and be slothful, either, wrong interpretation, to see it that way and then expect no answer
 
I said it before to Garth Brooks, and now I'll say it to you:
God answers every prayer.
Sometimes the answer is "No".
This is so true. For many years I prayed to have something done that was of a worldly desire and not of his will. He had far different plans for me. I praise God now for what I thought was the end of my life to see I have been given a totally different path for him. This is much better a life. It took me about 6 yrs of praying before I realized the answer wasn't what I expected. But now I see that God had a bigger plan.
 
Observation:

Answers to prayers seem to come in direct correlation to the likelihood of the prayer itself.

If you pray for a good day or sense of peace or strength to get through a difficult trial.

Most of the time, your prayer is answered.

If you pray for healing of a terminally ill loved one , or that a friend gets saved, or your business will grow.

Most of the time, your prayer is not answered. (or granted, yes i realize "no" is also an answer)

So if you want more answered prayer, pray for things that are more likely to happen.

http://www.nytimes.com/2006/03/31/health/31pray.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0
 
Remember that we are merely physical creatures with a much lower intelligence level than the spiritual creatures such as the angels. God knows what is best for us, :cool: and he works in mysterious ways. He knows what it's like to be a human, yet he still is an entirely different creature altogether.

If God wants us to know something, he won't just pop in front of us. he'll let us know via signs and hidden messages.

If you think your prayers are unanswered, then these might be some possibilities:
1. The prayer has already been answered, but you didn't catch the signs.
2. The prayer won't be answered, possibly because God knows something you don't...
3. The prayer will be answered at a later date. Trusting that God doesn't do things by accident, we can assume that he lines up all our prayers so that they may be fulfilled in ways that benefit each party.
 
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Amazing, what is it that everyone wants, I mean bottom line, is it not life?
What prayer has not been answered? Has not what man wants been answered through God through Son to us?
He came to do what? Has this not been done, hmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
John 10:10
The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

Apparently while alive in flesh we needed life in something else yes?
So how are we to get it, work for it, or believe and receive the free gift in the Spirit for it, and then rest in that from God to you?
John 3:5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
First born of flesh then of the Spirit of God, where is this done at? Could it have started at Pentecost? And I am not talking one must speak in tongues thing. I am talking about God coming to live in you, only if you ask in belief of Faith, hope and Love, the greatest of these Love
A free gift, can works constitute a gift, can works not being done make void the gift?
You see we have everything we need for life and Godliness, and this is by whether we believe or not, too simple in spite of one's circumstances
Love you all, deeper and deeper as I continue to grow in grace as God leads
 
The prayers of the wicked are an abomination to God and he wont listen to them! (Proverbs 28:9, Psalm 66:18, John 9:31, Isaiah 1:15)