Why is it so hard to find a true Christian man in my small town?!

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passion84god said:
You've been trying my patience. jk. Good to have you back on the prowl.
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That is a beneficial side effect, not the primary goal.

In other words I don't try to try your patience, that's just a bonus.
 
Sunshine2026 said:
Listennnn if you know you know! I live in a small town in WV, and the dating scene is either “oh I’m a Christian (they arnt their just posers)” or “oh I’m a christian(but am taken)” like whyyyyy. Like I just want a Godly man of God that isn’t far away, that will be the leader he is called to be in a relationship and be handsome is that so hard to ask for! Like bro…I mise we’ll be single and have a lot of cats at this point.💀
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cinder said:
Well options are limited in a small town mainly because there just aren't that many people there. And not many people often translates to not a lot of economic opportunity for the young men in tow so they don't stay there.

As for the church side, there's a book titled why men hate going to church that basically lays out how churches have become very welcoming places for women that cater to women's strengths and desires but ysually leave men feeling like they aren't valued or there's something wrong with them and don't really address men's deep seated needs and fears in the same way. And one of the things they tend to say about the women looking for Godly men is that their standards and expectations are so high that even Jesus wouldn't be acceptable to them. So as you look for this man of God be sure your expectations are in line with the fact that even if he's super devoted to Jesus, he's still just a mere mortal man not some super human saint.

That doesn't mean that there aren't Godly men out there, but they have their own sets of challenges.
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Love this!
 
Do they still have Promisekeepers. I think it's a mens only event. But you could gatecrash.

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I don't have any gatecrashing tips though, unless you try the whole trojan horse/Mulan thing where you disguise yourself as man of God.
 
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