X Marks the Spot

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kaylagrl

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While I totally realize that CCs intentions were to give people several emojis to react with, things have lately been getting out of hand. I recall when the red x first popped up. I would use it only when I believed what a person was saying was heresy, totally against what the Bible taught. Then suddenly people began to use it not because they disagreed with a comment, but as a weapon. I had several people, who are now banned, that would follow me around the forum and red x anything I said, even if it was straight out of the Bible!! I pop in today and see someone has given me ten thumbs down in a row, and I wasn't even speaking directly to them!! smh Hey, you want to disagree, do so. But people are using these emojis as a weapon. I feel that's a misuse of the emojis. Anyone else feel the same way? Understand, I'm not saying people don't have a right to use it, I just don't think you should be allowed to misuse it simply because you dislike that person. There is a difference.
 

Lynx

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So very tempted to give a red x reaction...

No. That would be just juvenile. I will refrain.
 
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SophieT

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While I totally realize that CCs intentions were to give people several emojis to react with, things have lately been getting out of hand. I recall when the red x first popped up. I would use it only when I believed what a person was saying was heresy, totally against what the Bible taught. Then suddenly people began to use it not because they disagreed with a comment, but as a weapon. I had several people, who are now banned, that would follow me around the forum and red x anything I said, even if it was straight out of the Bible!! I pop in today and see someone has given me ten thumbs down in a row, and I wasn't even speaking directly to them!! smh Hey, you want to disagree, do so. But people are using these emojis as a weapon. I feel that's a misuse of the emojis. Anyone else feel the same way? Understand, I'm not saying people don't have a right to use it, I just don't think you should be allowed to misuse it simply because you dislike that person. There is a difference.
Right. Well anyone who was not rooting for the left in a certain thread also received the same. That person claims to be a Christian from birth and resides in Africa so they apparently may think this site runs like fb or something.

We know that no one is a Christian from birth so apparently, they do not understand that either.

Just some very judgemental people joining lately and from other countries, who seem to want to dump on the US.
 
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kaylagrl

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#4
So very tempted to give a red x reaction...

No. That would be just juvenile. I will refrain.

Oh, I'll get several. I'd consider it an honor from you though ;) But you don't swim in the BDF or News waters. I've tried to be accepted by the single folks but they don't want old married ladies hangin' round. Still I'm envious, they have the most fun on CC. Don't think hubby would accept grounds for divorce as " I want to hang with the nice, fun single people on CC".
 

seoulsearch

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#5
So very tempted to give a red x reaction...

No. That would be just juvenile. I will refrain.
Kayla must be pretty special, because normally that doesn't stop you. :ROFL:
 
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SophieT

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#6
Speaking of new members, x's and other limited speaking engagements, 5 threads were started within the last 24 hrs by a new member who seems familiar with OT prophet railings against Israel.

If you know what I mean :unsure:
 
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kaylagrl

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#7
Kayla must be pretty special, because normally that doesn't stop you. :ROFL:
Haha! I don't think I've given Lynx any reason to slap the x on me. And besides, my pupper looks like an Artic fox, surely a Lynx and a fox can get along? :p
 
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While I totally realize that CCs intentions were to give people several emojis to react with, things have lately been getting out of hand. I recall when the red x first popped up. I would use it only when I believed what a person was saying was heresy, totally against what the Bible taught. Then suddenly people began to use it not because they disagreed with a comment, but as a weapon. I had several people, who are now banned, that would follow me around the forum and red x anything I said, even if it was straight out of the Bible!! I pop in today and see someone has given me ten thumbs down in a row, and I wasn't even speaking directly to them!! smh Hey, you want to disagree, do so. But people are using these emojis as a weapon. I feel that's a misuse of the emojis. Anyone else feel the same way? Understand, I'm not saying people don't have a right to use it, I just don't think you should be allowed to misuse it simply because you dislike that person. There is a difference.
What you are describing is a popular manipulation tactic on message boards known as brigading, vote manipulation, or forum sliding.

Correct me if I am wrong, but the reactions are more than just flare to attach to posts, they factor into an algorithm. So when someone spams your comments with thumbs down it actually factors into the trophy system and how content is promoted on this website's front page. Meaning that if someone is unfairly targeting you then they are actually circumventing the built-in systems this site uses promote content.

I have witnessed some of the aforementioned things here. Vote manipulation on social media can be used as a personal attack or an attempt to discredit you by giving you a negative reaction.

Brigading is getting a group of people to attack someone else's posts.

Forum sliding is posting material so quickly that it removes otherwise good and high quality posts from visibility.
 
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jennymae

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#9
There’s a couple of folks who’ve been eagerly handing out red x marks for my posts. Always the same people. I didn’t give them a red x. I guess it’s easier giving a red x than receiving one.
 
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So very tempted to give a red x reaction...

No. That would be just juvenile. I will refrain.
What I was going to do, but I can't do that to poor @kaylagrl :)

I've had 2 negatives from "newbies" (they've been here for like, less than a year) for the first time since being a member here. I knew it was used as a weapon, and I just didn't care. I ignored it and moved on with my day. It's their own issue that they're so angry and trying to tear people down.

Even though it's wrong, I just think it's important to remember that YOU'RE not doing anything wrong. I haven't seen you post anything hateful or distasteful before, so it seems that it's not something you're doing wrong and let it roll off your back, as hard as it is to do that.
 
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KT88

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#11
What you are describing is a popular manipulation tactic on message boards known as brigading, vote manipulation, or forum sliding.

Correct me if I am wrong, but the reactions are more than just flare to attach to posts, they factor into an algorithm. So when someone spams your comments with thumbs down it actually factors into the trophy system and how content is promoted on this website's front page. Meaning that if someone is unfairly targeting you then they are actually circumventing the built-in systems this site uses promote content.

I have witnessed some of the aforementioned things here. Vote manipulation on social media can be used as a personal attack or an attempt to discredit you by giving you a negative reaction.

Brigading is getting a group of people to attack someone else's posts.

Forum sliding is posting material so quickly that it removes otherwise good and high quality posts from visibility.
The software is not that sophisticated.
 
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kaylagrl

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#12
There’s a couple of folks who’ve been eagerly handing out red x marks for my posts. Always the same people. I didn’t give them a red x. I guess it’s easier giving a red x than receiving one.


Quite honestly I don't know if I've given you a red x, that thread got so bad I don't even know who I reacted to. I will read back and see where I reacted. But I'm really not talking about disagreeing with a post. If you feel you disagree enough to mark an X ok. But what I'm talking about is mis-using the x against the person not the post. I'm seeing a lot of that going on lately. Use to be rare to see the red x, now it's flying all over the place. So I'm asking, is it being mis-used?
 

posthuman

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Correct me if I am wrong, but the reactions are more than just flare to attach to posts, they factor into an algorithm. So when someone spams your comments with thumbs down it actually factors into the trophy system and how content is promoted on this website's front page. Meaning that if someone is unfairly targeting you then they are actually circumventing the built-in systems this site uses promote content.
pretty sure you're wrong.

'trophies' are meaningless - after you make 1,000 posts and receive 250 likes, there's no further 'awards' and they don't have any effect on anything. it's not even prominently displayed anywhere, you have to dig through someone's profile to see them. most of the people who were on the board when we migrated forum software automatically maxed out all of them. i think it was just a built-in feature of the forum software that couldn't be turned off.

the things on the front page are all sorted by 'most recent' -- as far as i'm aware there is no algorithm in the forum that 'promotes' posts threads or people that have a lot of positive reactions, and negative reactions don't do anything either.

of course, if i'm wrong, please correct me too :)
 
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kaylagrl

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#14
pretty sure you're wrong.

'trophies' are meaningless - after you make 1,000 posts and receive 250 likes, there's no further 'awards' and they don't have any effect on anything. most of the people who were on the board when we migrated forum software automatically maxed out all of them.

the things on the front page are all sorted by 'most recent' -- as far as i'm aware there is no algorithm in the forum that 'promotes' posts threads or people that have a lot of positive reactions, and negative reactions don't do anything either.

of course, if i'm wrong, please correct me too :)

Reading this post ... I realized I need glasses. :(
 

posthuman

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The software is not that sophisticated.
yeah, this isn't reddit or quora or anything like that. we don't have a 'sort posts by popularity' button anywhere i'm aware of.
 
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KT88

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pretty sure you're wrong.

'trophies' are meaningless - after you make 1,000 posts and receive 250 likes, there's no further 'awards' and they don't have any effect on anything. it's not even prominently displayed anywhere, you have to dig through someone's profile to see them. most of the people who were on the board when we migrated forum software automatically maxed out all of them. i think it was just a built-in feature of the forum software that couldn't be turned off.

the things on the front page are all sorted by 'most recent' -- as far as i'm aware there is no algorithm in the forum that 'promotes' posts threads or people that have a lot of positive reactions, and negative reactions don't do anything either.

of course, if i'm wrong, please correct me too :)
The awards/like/dislikes feature is not going to effect promotion of new posts/threads which you see at the bottom of the main page, that's what I'm saying.
 

posthuman

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The awards/like/dislikes feature is not going to effect promotion of new posts/threads which you see at the bottom of the main page, that's what I'm saying.
yeah that's all sorted by "most recent"
 
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kaylagrl

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There’s a couple of folks who’ve been eagerly handing out red x marks for my posts. Always the same people. I didn’t give them a red x. I guess it’s easier giving a red x than receiving one.
I read back and you only commented a couple times in the thread that was just closed. I did appreciate this comment "Okay, Trump’s done a lot of stupid stuff, but I don’t think he should be punished, neither by hanging nor prison. His legacy is what it is and he will be judged by the people’s interpretation of that. " I don't think you said much that I disagreed with.