thats a tough question to answer briefly. If the man confesses a sin God forgives and cleanses.
If the man tries to stop and is bound or overtaken by the sin and cant deal with it on his own and
if he stops and falls in again until he learns to trust God and resists the sin humbly before God who
will provide him the grace(power) to overcome it he may simply struggle in vain.
In otherwords as i hear sin is a choice. some sins will be chosen rather than obedience because of
the weakness of the flesh. Same reason that the law didnt work but to magnify the knowledge of sin.
Sin is not simply a choice...it is a principle or a law. Sexual sins cant be treated the same...we dont just
resist...we flee. Addicted is a more contemporary psychological term that was coined to lessen the crime
and give excuses for it. I thought that was a no-no.
IF we confess a sin and ask for the grace to overcome it God will surely help as He promises to.
I have confessed sin to the Lord while i was in the sin. He delivered me out of the bondage of it.
Did He forgive me first? I simply dont know. But i know this...He had mercy on me and He delivered me.
Forgiveness isnt all we need...we need cleansed...washed and regenerated by the Holyspirit. That comes
from faithfulness in our trusting dependence on Him not on our resolve. rom7
So the answer to you question is no God will forgive the sinner who beats his chest and cries out for mercy
then the man goes down justified and God cleanses him. While the pharisee thanks God hes not like all
the other sinners in the church.
All rhetoric aside that in the bold is the problem.
You believe that you get saved in your sins and so do all the pastors in every denomination. It is a false gospel message.
The Bible says this...
Isa 55:7 Let the wicked
forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
You use this parable to justify saved in sins.
Luk 18:10 Two men went up into the temple to pray; the one a Pharisee, and the other a publican.
Luk 18:11 The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican.
Luk 18:12 I fast twice in the week, I give tithes of all that I possess.
Luk 18:13 And
the publican, standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote upon his breast, saying, God be merciful to me a sinner.
Luk 18:14 I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other: for every one that exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.
The Prodigal Son did what the publican did...
Luk 15:21 And the son said unto him, Father,
I have sinned against heaven, and in thy sight, and am no more worthy to be called thy son.
Yet the son FIRST left the pig pen.
Luk 15:18 I will arise and go to my father, and will say unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before thee,
Luk 15:19 And am no more worthy to be called thy son: make me as one of thy hired servants.
Luk 15:20
And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.
The Prodigal Son did this...
Jas 1:21 Wherefore lay apart all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness, and receive with meekness the engrafted word, which is able to save your souls.
Jer 26:13 Therefore now amend your ways and your doings, and obey the voice of the LORD your God; and the LORD will repent him of the evil that he hath pronounced against you.
Pro 28:13 He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.
A person who views pornography must FORSAKE that sin before God will forgive him. The sin is forsaken through a godly sorrow that works a genuine repentance unto salvation.
2Co 7:10 For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.
Godly sorrow --------------> Repentance --------------> Salvation
It is through godly sorrow that the desires change.
2Co 7:11 For behold this selfsame thing, that
ye sorrowed after a godly sort, what
carefulness it wrought in you, yea, what
clearing of yourselves, yea, what
indignation, yea, what
fear, yea, what
vehement desire, yea, what
zeal, yea, what
revenge!
In all things ye have approved yourselves to be clear in this matter.
A pornography addict is lead away by the lust of his flesh like this...
Jas 1:14 But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed.
Jas 1:15 Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death.
Yet through repentance this happens.
Gal 5:24 And they that are Christ's
have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.
Rom 6:6 Knowing this, that our
old man is crucified with him, that the body of sin might be destroyed, that
henceforth we should not serve sin.
Rom 6:7 For he that is dead is freed from sin.
This happens...
Rom 6:12
Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof.
Rom 6:13
Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God.
Rom 6:14 For
sin shall not have dominion over you: for ye are not under the law, but under grace.
Rom 6:15 What then?
shall we sin, because we are not under the law, but under grace?God forbid.
Rom 6:16 Know ye not, that
to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness?
Rom 6:17 But God be thanked, that
ye were the servants of sin, but ye have obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine which was delivered you.
This is not being taught in the churches. The churches teach what you teach, that you "should" stop, to "ask for more grace," "to trust" but in the meantime the sin continues and the professing Christian is double minded and serving two masters because the flesh has not been crucified.
It is another Gospel. It is a very subtle satanic deception, it is a strong delusion which overtakes the mind and has inbuilt defences to keep the victim in a trance.
The inbuilt defences are original sin and a faulty view of the atonement, namely penal substitution. Those errors are so deeply ingrained in the mind that when the truth is heard it is rejected because of the cognitive dissonance it causes in the mind.
It generally does not matter how much scripture someone like me shows you, it is always rejected and the fallacy upheld.
Go and read the parable of the Prodigal Son, go read Isaiah chapters 1 and 55, Pro 28:13, Jer 26, Jonah 3 with Nineveh and all the words of Jesus and be honest with yourself and see if "saved in sins" fits the text.
It doesn't fit at all. This jesus in the churches is the image of the beast and the pastors are dispensing the mark of the flesh upon all who receive the free gift.
Go read the early church (pre-Augustine) and you will see that a completely different Gospel was preached. There is none of this "receive and trust in Jesus, it was repent and obey, die with Christ and be raised up with Him, walk in the light, be holy, and endure to the end.
Don't be deceived.
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