James 3:16

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Magenta

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oh dear.

Good job you know me
To know you is to love you :eek:

My response was momentarily delayed by a loss of internet
connectivity at my friendly neighborhood coffee shop
:D
 

Gabriel2020

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these are the conflicts on this sight. debates are simply augurements. Knowledge of the bible, but no understanding of the scriptures seem to be the biggest problem. everybody believes that they are right. The only ones that can recognize the truth are those that are lead and taught by the holy spirit. one thing is for sure, somebody is wrong, and somebody is right.
 
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stonesoffire

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By not coveting :) Thank God for what you have...
my mind was going in the same direction Magenta...being content with what God has given whether it's a ministry, words, or goods.

We get jealous of what others have so easily. Am sure there is much more to this.

Well, Denadii...you started the thread. :)
 

Magenta

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We are all beaten up and wounded by life.

Let us love one another, for love is of God...

I am ashamed of myself for my failure to do this
consistently, but will not allow others to shame me.

That is not their job LOL

Perhaps lowering our expectations of others, being careful
to take responsibility for our role in any interaction, and
removing the majority of "you" statements would help...
 

BillG

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When I was bullied here, it started to cause me to be bitter. I'm not going to be bullied off the site by people who are happy to do so.

Hebrews 12:15
Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled;

Ephesians 4;31
Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:

God just made me feel better, He can wipe away negativity. I've also seen other people come back to the site after being bullied off by those same people.

God is so good, at least we can all agree on that.
Someone who bullies will do so out of insecurity, when the insecurity is challenged the response is not rational.

When one someone is secure then their response will tend to be rational.

We must in all circumstances never get bitter, I know it's easier said than done.
But the truth is if we do then we can become like a bully.

We as the church of God must and it's required by God to love each other.
 

Zen

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these are the conflicts on this sight. debates are simply augurements. Knowledge of the bible, but no understanding of the scriptures seem to be the biggest problem. everybody believes that they are right. The only ones that can recognize the truth are those that are lead and taught by the holy spirit. one thing is for sure, somebody is wrong, and somebody is right.
One thing I've noticed too is that sometimes people might assume that you are teaching something, just because you say it.

"It will", vs. "I think it will".

And people will see one of your comments and assume something about it, and then they build up some image of you in their mind and then no amount of discussion will change it.

"This person is a heretic, they teach <X>"
"That was 20 years ago, they no longer believe <X>"

Another thing that bothers me is when someone insults me, it's really hard to forgive them, and if I do, they probably ignore me anyway, and wouldn't even think to apologize. So it just leaves negativity around. People ignoring each other, having multiple accounts, insults and reporting. It's all just sad.

This is just as relevant as it was back then.

Matthew 18:
[SUP]21 [/SUP]Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?
[SUP]22 [/SUP]Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.

Time to remove the 2 people on my ignore list lol.
 

stonesoffire

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Luk 12:58  As you go with your accuser before the magistrate, make an effort to settle with him on the way, lest he drag you to the judge, and the judge hand you over to the officer, and the officer put you in prison. 
Luk 12:59  I tell you, you will never get out until you have paid the very last penny." 

This is a funny story that actually happened to me. I was dating this guy when I was single. A nice widower, and a Christian. I was divorced and not yet healed from it.

So I start throwing things at him from my hurt from my husband, and all he would do was say..you are probably right...with everything I threw at him.

Finally I realized what I was doing and started laughing. And apologized. Wish I would remember this all the time. But, am human. :(

He was a great teacher even if he didn't realize it.
 

stonesoffire

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One thing I've noticed too is that sometimes people might assume that you are teaching something, just because you say it.

"It will", vs. "I think it will".

And people will see one of your comments and assume something about it, and then they build up some image of you in their mind and then no amount of discussion will change it.

"This person is a heretic, they teach <X>"
"That was 20 years ago, they no longer believe <X>"

Another thing that bothers me is when someone insults me, it's really hard to forgive them, and if I do, they probably ignore me anyway, and wouldn't even think to apologize. So it just leaves negativity around. People ignoring each other, having multiple accounts, insults and reporting. It's all just sad.

This is just as relevant as it was back then.

Matthew 18:
[SUP]21 [/SUP]Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?
[SUP]22 [/SUP]Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.

Time to remove the 2 people on my ignore list lol.
I'm seeing now a different side of you too Zen. So I need to apologize for my thoughts. Right now I can't remember what I disagreed with you about but if I said anything to hurt you...I am so sorry.
 

Gabriel2020

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Agreeing and disagreeing is ok, after that searching out the truth. I believe what we have is that two-edged sword cutting asunder with some. hitting where it hurts ,then they lash out at you.
 

BillG

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Luk 12:58  As you go with your accuser before the magistrate, make an effort to settle with him on the way, lest he drag you to the judge, and the judge hand you over to the officer, and the officer put you in prison. 
Luk 12:59  I tell you, you will never get out until you have paid the very last penny." 

This is a funny story that actually happened to me. I was dating this guy when I was single. A nice widower, and a Christian. I was divorced and not yet healed from it.

So I start throwing things at him from my hurt from my husband, and all he would do was say..you are probably right...with everything I threw at him.

Finally I realized what I was doing and started laughing. And apologized. Wish I would remember this all the time. But, am human. :(

He was a great teacher even if he didn't realize it.
Big hug from brother BillG to you.
 

BillG

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Thank you Bill...need hugs at times.. ((((hugs back)))))
Truth is precious lady, for me anyway if we are willing to embrace each rather than face palm each other then maybe the world will see the love of God.
 
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these are the conflicts on this sight. debates are simply augurements. Knowledge of the bible, but no understanding of the scriptures seem to be the biggest problem. everybody believes that they are right. The only ones that can recognize the truth are those that are lead and taught by the holy spirit. one thing is for sure, somebody is wrong, and somebody is right.
More often than not, everybody is wrong!
 

stonesoffire

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It's time we do. The world needs Jesus. Am learning when I come into contact with anyone, even in line in Walmart, just a touch can be a touch from Him since He is big on the inside of us. We can let Him out on others with that love.
 

BillG

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As for me I would just like to say if I fall foul of the purpose of this post I would ask you to let me know.
I like the rest of you want to be like Jesus.
We are called to love each other as Christ loves the church.

If don't love as I should, pull me aside and let me know.
 

RickyZ

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I wonder if anyone has noticed? Every single thread I look at, there is little scriture shared but a lot of anger and strife is shared instead. I wonder why? Yes.....I'm no less guilty than anyone else. :(
I agree that everything we believe should be based on scripture. But 99.9% of the people who post things have scripture behind what they believe (whether true or not). And, when people put up scripture, it is more often used for target practice than actual consideration of the poster's point. Too, it's an escalating thing - I put up one scripture supporting my belief, you (generic you not specifically the op) respond with two that say differently. Then I see your two and raise you a third, upon which you go all-in with a full litany. Are we actually accomplishing anything with this or are we just rattling sabers?