You are painting a scenario upon me that did not happen. Nowhere did we ever go thru you a situation where you were telling me you were going to kill yourself and then I went and ignored you and or did not feel empathic towards you. What happened is that you immediately jumped on me because I disagreed with your OP. Then you tried to make it all about how I am not being sensitive enough. If you were upfront with me about your situation, then I would most certainly express my heart to you in that situation. But by your words in this thread, I was not getting the impression that you were trying to kill yourself. I cannot know how you are feeling unless you actually tell me about your feelings.
Loving Yourself Thread
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actually I jumped on a lot of people because I whole heartily thought that we were going to have a nice conversation about what we liked about ourselves and others and what it means to love ourselves in a Christ-like manner and looking to the Bible and then when I checked CC the next morning I saw that there were 30 replies and when I read them I was completely shocked at what I was reading! I didn't want THAT. I wanted nice things being said. And then it all exploded.
You have got to be kidding. You have done nothing but attack me dear sir. Post after post you attack me on many topics of the Bible. I did not say anything nasty to anyone. If you believed I did, then please show me the post. I would be happy to discuss what you think I said which would be considered as bullying.
I can imagine your disappointment. It was not my intention to cause you to have a bad day or to get you upset. I merely was expressing that I disagreed with your OP by what the Word of God says. You can be like....
"well... I disagree."
Or you could have been like...
"Well, I think the context of this passage says this instead."
But that is not what happened. We have to understand that not everyone is going to agree with what we say and we cannot control people's conversations. Discussion is full of disagreements. Sometimes they are fruitful and other times they are not. I say that with love.
Anyways, may God bless you.
"well... I disagree."
Or you could have been like...
"Well, I think the context of this passage says this instead."
But that is not what happened. We have to understand that not everyone is going to agree with what we say and we cannot control people's conversations. Discussion is full of disagreements. Sometimes they are fruitful and other times they are not. I say that with love.
Anyways, may God bless you.
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Please Stop!!! I am exhausted from hearing people arguing over whether someone said something or didn't say anything. I know you guys better than this and I don't believe this type of attitude is what Christ would want to hear his children treating their brothers and sisters. I am far from perfect and struggle with showing God's love all the time and I know my bible tells me to love one another as God loves each of us that he sent his perfect son to die for our sins. God is love and I do not see that love being portrayed here and I know you all know how. I just want peace and I don't like arguments and please if you can't say anything that does not reflect Christ in you please don't respond.
I am sorry if I passed judgement on any one of you, but he is a God of peace and love and I want to see that here.
I am sorry if I passed judgement on any one of you, but he is a God of peace and love and I want to see that here.
Dear Sirk:
Also, in your statement on bullying: Well, nowhere do I ever try to make it personal with a person, though. I do not call out a person's name and tell them that they have to do this and that and keep bugging them personally. Nowhere do I seek to get a person to talk about their personal life, etc. Nowhere do I constantly make smart remarks towards them and or make fun of them. I try to speak in a third person way with the Word of God as much as possible. I strive to attack the belief and not the person.
Anyways, please know that I do love you and I say this in love.
In any event, please be well.
And may God bless you.
Sincerely,
~ Jason.
Also, in your statement on bullying: Well, nowhere do I ever try to make it personal with a person, though. I do not call out a person's name and tell them that they have to do this and that and keep bugging them personally. Nowhere do I seek to get a person to talk about their personal life, etc. Nowhere do I constantly make smart remarks towards them and or make fun of them. I try to speak in a third person way with the Word of God as much as possible. I strive to attack the belief and not the person.
Anyways, please know that I do love you and I say this in love.
In any event, please be well.
And may God bless you.
Sincerely,
~ Jason.
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